Sunday, April 11, 2010
Why don't you stop talking and just make out with someone already
I'm sure the birthday girl would have kissed me if I just looked into her eyes and kissed her right after she told me that. It's too bad she was the one that was into me. I worked the friend and she liked me a bit. I even number closed her. Later when the birthday girl and another friend left, I hung around and she eventually gave me the cold shoulder.
There were too problems with the friend. First, I probably frustrated her but not escalating more. Maybe I should have listed to the birthday girl and kissed the friend. I remember when bday girl told me to kiss the friend, I put my arm around her and told her that the bday girl wanted me to kiss her. She didn't object and I'm thinking now that I should have just went to kiss her. Instead, I just looked at her and the bday girl ended up kissing the friend on the lips briefly.
I wanted to say that the second problem was that these girls were cute but were overweight. Sure, at this point, the hot girls seem to respond better to me. I actually don't go for these type of sets that often except that they seemed to be the best set to approach at the time. Besides, I believe the only rating system is a binary one. If you'd hook up with the girl, then you should sarge her. These girls had cute faces and I wanted to hook up with them.
No, it's clear that the main problem was I hesitated to escalate when a girl basically blurted out for me to do it. I feel like I keep writing the same reports here.
I think part of the problem was that I still haven't completely gotten out of the old mindset that I developed from learning how to sarge. As RSD Ozzie says, I keep overgaming girls. When I'm on, these girls want to make out with me in 5-10 minutes or even less sometimes and I still haven't accepted that it can now happen that fast for me. It's time to start believing and acting...