I had read this post years ago and it's helped me at various times. The answers to my night where right there. I couldn't find the original post as I guess it's in the archive, but I found this link from some lair:
http://www.dallaslair.com/forum/showthread.php?t=173
I probably wasn't in the right head space to do all this but here it goes. Again, I should have found them right away. I should have burst right through the guys and hugged my girl and said something to pump her buying temperature. With the situation I was left with, I should have just hung out with the sister and the guys. The sister was low buying temperature last night. The dude that was there next to her was like a few feet away and she was alone most of the time. As TD says in that article, the key to the woman in the peer group. I get the sister to like me and I'll have a better chance than the dude who's gaming my girl.
I just be chill and let the other dude pump my girls buying temperature. If I hung around, I'd get introduced to him. Then I just alpha him in my normal way. I can pepper in some TD lines later depending on how he acts. I also slowly mention to the sister how the guy is a bit creepy so she starts to frame him like that. If I were really money, I bring over the blonde Mexican chick as a pawn/social proof.
If all goes well, the dude does something to bust out, or I slowly start to eclipse him. The big problem was I was in a needy, shitty state so I probably would have failed, but at least I again understand the game plan. Again, what I shouldn't have done was gives the guy free reign to sarge without any interference from me.
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