I came down to visit my mother as my stepfather passed away. I was
out with an old friend in Atlanta two Thursdays ago and sarged there the
one night I was there. It was slow that night but I gave a good effort
and with a little more belief in myself, I might have made something
happen. Fast forward to tonight and I should be happy with what I was
able to do solo and after not sarging for a week.
Momentum
does help and it felt different to go out after not being really social
this week and not sarging at all. I might not have even gone out today
but I went for a haircut and the barber was a young guy and he pointed
me to this place called Ocala Entertainment Complex or OCE. When I get
there, I had to wait in a super long line as they frisk every guy that
goes in. I hated paying the $20 cover as I never pay that much in
Chicago, but I was surprised to learn that the drinks are free. That
makes up for the cover except I could only drink 3 beers as I had to
drive home in 3 hours.
I found myself standing around
ordering drinks and scoping things out. The club has a large country
bar area with line dancing and a club area with hip hop music and a
dance floor. For a brief moment, I worried I was gonna totally waste my
$20 but I was able to relax. One thing that was totally different was
that this place allowed 18-20 year old people to enter, but of course
they couldn't drink. I need to hook up with an 18 year old at some
point and maybe I can do that when I return here. I opened one girl who
immediately told me, "I'm 18." I replied, "Hey, that's legal at
least." She gave her friend the "rescue me" eyes, and I had fun with
it. I learned from a Kincaid's set two weeks ago and I told the friend,
"Hey, she's giving you the rescue me eyes" as the friend didn't even
notice it right away.
Doubted myself for a few seconds twice:
There
were only two sets that really stuck out. The first was this cute
brunette that I clicked with in the country section. I had her hooked
but then the friends wandered off. This would be my curse for the night
as will be clear shortly. This brunette gave me the huge IOI when I
friend came in early and suggested getting a drink and my girl decided
to stay with me. When the whole group decided to go the club area, she
had to follow.
I stalled a bit here even though I knew
the right move. She said, "My friend are going to the club area." The
correct move would have been to grab her hand and start leading that way
and say, "Let's go with your friends to the club area." Instead, I
knew she had to go. I hesitated for a few seconds and thensaid, "Let's
go." I started to walk with her but I didn't do it in a confident way
and she had gotten ahead of me, so I didn't follow. Sadly, I didn't see
her again in the club area. She was probably on the dance floor most
of the time. I would have opened her again for sure had I seen here.
The
real set of the night was this frustrating two set with a chubby red
head and this cute, thin brunette. I was standing in the club area when
this two set stopped near me. I quickly opened this redhead as I love
redheads. She was a little fat but as I always say, I have a fetish for
natural redheads so I wanted her more than the cute brunette friend.
As I was talking to the redhead, some guy started dancing up on the
friend. The redhead gave him a look of disgust.
This
was an example of how the stronger frame wins. I don't think he even
saw the look she gave him; if he saw it, he ignored her. He danced up
on the friend and the friend started to get into it. In about 10
seconds, the redhead's disgust turned to attraction. She started dancing
in front of him so he was sandwiched between the two of them.
Manning up:
I
was amused how she was initially disgusted and then she liked the guy.
I sat dumbfounded for a second and then I got in the right mindset.
She had her back to the guy. I moved over and started dancing in front
of her. She liked this and moved up on me. The other guy than ran off,
but fortunately, some other guy started dancing with the friend.
I was thinking, "Wow this is perfect. I have another guy occupying the friend and she seems to like him."
The
redhead turned and started really grinding her ass into me. I put my
hands on her hips initially and then I started spanking her ass a few
times and I moved my hands onto her hands. I moved my hands up and down
her arms. I moved her hair to the side and blew into her ear. I
turned her around so I would be leading and gave her some stimulation
with my leg. I later turned he back around and when I touched her hair,
she helped me by moving her hair to the side. I was getting ready to
try to move things towards a kiss but then suddenly the other guy ran
off. The friend even gave this puzzled look when he ran off.
I need a wing badly:
I had talked to some guys
earlier and one guy had helped me wing a set. I lost them and when I
found them later, I couldn't find my set. It was frustrating. I went
back to my redhead two different times and got positive responses both
times. I should have engaged the friend more, but I was struggling to
balance making sure I had her hooked when I returned and being able to
talk to the friend. In both cases, the friend walked off and my girl
had to leave.
I'm thinking that maybe I should have just resorted to just
following them. It's not ideal but 2-sets solo is never a good
situation. The only time it works is if the friend just wanders off
because she is letting her friend hook up. I kept beating myself up on
the drive home that I couldn't make this happen but I need to remember
that Mystery has even said 2-sets without a wing are bad.
Don't browbeat yourself;
Tyler says this and I often violate it. I know I should be happy with
my night. I hadn't sarged in a week yet I pushed myself. I hooked two
sets and tried with a bunch of other girls including this smoking hot
blonde. I regret that I didn't approach a few other hot girls but two
were in 2-sets, so I can cut myself slack on that. The other was in a
big mixed set but I still could have went in to scope things out.
That redhead was hooked and if I had a few more songs I would
have likely gotten an easy make out on the dance floor. I know if I had
Nintendo or 2j this set might have been a pull opportunity. The friend
was cute enough that they would have enjoyed winging her and I had my
fetish girl, a real redhead.
I had a chance to try a 3rd time near the end of the night when I
saw them in the country area. I was trying to find a wing to help me
and then I couldn't find them again. I give myself props for looking
for them when the place closed as I was gonna make a last ditch pull
attempt.
At the same time, I felt like a loser when I was standing by
myself as everyone was leaving the club. I wanted to do some Jeffy
moves but there weren't any solo girls and I didn't have the nerve at
the time to go into a 3-set and try fast escalation.
Anyway, again, I can be happy that I made the effort and had
decent results. I'm sure this will help me on Saturday as I now have
some momentum going into Atlanta sarging.
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