Tonight was a shitty night; I thought my car was gonna break down but I'm not sure anymore if it will or not. I was mad at Sidegames cause I felt like he had violated PUA wing etiquette with this blonde from Tuesday. Fortunately, we worked that out right before we met up with her.He's new to this, and I didn't explain how wingman work together. I didn't explain that whoever opens the set gets to chose the target and the wingman's job is to help his friend get the target. That means talking to the ugly one and also not taking the target at all costs. RSD Tim tells a story where he was winging Alex and Alex was ignoring a girl and the girl started trying to get Tim's number to make herself feel better. Most guys would give their number, but a true wing blows it off cause he knows his job to to help his wing. This pays off in the end cause when you go out enough, you'll end up helping each other over the long run: this means you'll switch off handling obstacles, etc.
When I finally got all that out, we settled our differences. He understood why I was having such a complex about our interaction with this girl, and I understood where he was coming from.
Sidegames surprised me by opening a set as we were leaving the dollar burger place.PedNurse (that's what we'll call the blonde from Tuesday) said she'd meet us at Lion Head. Sidegames supposedly told her to bring a friend but she came alone. It was weird. I didn't know if I was suppose to sarge or if I should let Sidegames. We ended up just talking the whole time. We had a cool conversation but of course I wasn't sarging other sets since I was with them, and I also got almost no kino in. We finally moved upstairs. I danced with her a little but I was still hesistant to escalate. Part of the problem is that I was totally trashed on Tuesday and I knew I had been loud and too touchy with every one. Sidegames had told me he felt I was escalating too much on her, but at the end of the night, he admitted that she wasn't creeped out by it as he was making it sound initially.
Dudes sarging:
PedNurse is cool as hell. She was buying us drinks and everything. I tried to reciprocate cause I don't like taking advantage of people. We were dancing and then we went to the bar. I knew to follow her cause I know that competing dudes swarm on a girl that they think is by herself at the bar. Sure enough, this black dude start sarging her. He was doing okay. I didn't want to seem needy but I let him work his magic a little while I opened people around us. I remember leaning in to say something to her and dude thought he was gonna lose me by saying, "I'm talking to her." Lol.
She got the drinks and then the dude was gone, but then this moment came at closing time. Sidegames was all wasted. I told him to stay by her as competing dudes were gonna come in. Sure enough, that black dude sees her again. I tell Sidegames that I could use help with dealing with this dude. Well, I know I can handle him but tag teaming the dude blows him out so much faster. I tell Sidegames to start talking to him about sports and I'll pull her away. Instead, he decides to be stupid and goes in and invites dude to come out. The dude then number closes her in front of us. That doesn't matter so much but it mattered later cause she invited him out to the after hours spot. Part of that was my fault cause I didn't bust him out sooner.
Jenga:
We got to this slower after hours spot that I've never been to before. It's by her house and we actually walked by her place to get there. Sidegames made a good observation that we should have tried to just go up there instead of going to the bar. He had actually thought about asking to use the bathroom but didn't. I know if I had been alone with her, I would have made the move, but being with him I felt it might be weird. We went to the bar. We sat down by the bar and she was about to sit down by me when Sidegames suddenly sat in between us. I'm not even sure if he did it consciously to cockblock me or just because she was drunk. She ended up wanting to play the giant jenga game which turned out to be pretty cool . We were playing with a couple but then she invited some dudes to play. I was escalating with her a bit, but I fucked up the moment.
I was high fiving her when she had a successful piece pull and putting my arm around her. I was getting really close to her to talk and was talking to her man-to-woman to use RSD Jeffy's term. The moment came unexpectedly as I deep down I knew I had been playing this all wrong. This whole situation was just a bad dynamic. It's Sidegames and I and this girl. Sidegames got drunk and wasn't really escalating. I was starting to escalate but I still felt weird. Anyway, I leaned in to her to say something and our faces were inches apart.
I actually feel weird writing this cause it happened so quickly and I almost didn't believe it happened. As I think about it, I guess it had to have happened. Despite all my fuck ups, I still had a chance to kiss and I thought I had lost it cause this shit was taking too long. I seriously can't remember the last time I hung out with a girl this long and didn't escalate or get busted out.
I was leaning in to say something to her and somehow our lips were inches apart. I swear I saw her close her eyes and move her lips forward. I was surprised and then I hesitated and we lost that moment. All I had to do with lean forward about an inch or two and our lips would have locked and it would have been on. Instead, I had to play AMOG games for the next two hours cause I'm a fucking dumb ass. I will say that this wasn't super on like the French girl from two weeks ago. This moment just appeared a little unexpectedly and I wasn't ready.
Texting:
I saw her texting and I knew what was happening. Sidegames made me realize how I just see the matrix more often than not. As he said, he was surprised how I just predict what's gonna happen, although my visions can be wrong especially when it comes to late game. I knew she was texting that dude from the other bar. Had I kissed her, all this wouldn't have mattered. It's so much easier to pull a girl that you've made out with off of other dudes. You grab her and she comes with you. That or you can start kissing her in front of the dude and that'll blow almost every dude out except certain PUA's.
Sure enough, the dude showed up. At one point, he was talking to her and his game was starting to work. At this point, Sidegames decided to start listening to me. Later he told me that he wanted to try the opposite at the other bar cause he wanted to see what would happen doing the opposite of what I told him. He said in our debrief that his experiences on the night show that I am mostly good at reading things. I told Sidegames to approach the dude and start talking about sports. He went in and the guy got all into talking about the Bulls. It's the basic tag team AMOG tactic. The dude got distracted and forgot about talking to the girl and I just scooped her away.
Like fucking roaches:
That's how this whole fucking night was for the last hour and a half. On the ride home Sidegames made a good observation that I was caring too much about this girl. I guess it's two things.First, I just hate losing. As I wrote on that bad Tuesday and Sangria, when a guy takes a girl from me, I feel like I'm back in the AFC days and I feel like a total chump. Also, yeah there are a ton of girls, but there weren't many real sets in this bar. Beyond that, I wanted the AMOG practice.As I wrote after that Tuesday, ulimately, my goal is to sarge the hottest girls in the club. It's easy to blow out lesser guys. When you get to the level of sarging the hottest girls, there are always gonna be guys there . There will be orbiters to deal with. There will be competing players and PUA's, and beyond that, the guys will be good.
There was this dude with this hot girl that we ran into at the end of the night. PedNurse actually invited them to play. I gotta say that I love how social she is even though that resulted in all this AMOG nonsense. She talks to other couples and guys at the bar and not many girls do that.& I told her a few minutes before that kiss close moment came, "You know, I'm usually the most social guy in the bar but I gotta say, I like how you're giving me a run for my money. It's cool that you like meeting new people."
Naturals:
This dude was the type of natural I'm gonna have to deal with in the future.The dude form the other club was playing this bowling/shuffleboard game. He started saying something to the natural, and the dude started tooling him very well.The natural's material was so good everyone was laughing. I was thinking, "Damn, this guy is good. I gotta learn from him."; I can tool guys cause I read Tyler/Owen's old AMOG posts and cause I understand the general idea. I don't just naturally do that so I can make up spontaneous stuff that well. For this natural, it comes out, well... naturally. The dude is alpha and dominating and that's why he had a hot brunette with him I really am glad I got to practice AMOGing cause these guys are the ones I'll be competing with when it comes to hot girls. They are good so I gotta get better as I'll deal with it more and more as I get better with hot girls.
My AMOGing method here:
I keep thinking about what a massive pain in the ass it was to deal with all these dudes. There were three main guys trying to sarge PedNurse.I was at a disadvantage too cause I fucked up that kiss close moment. That's the key here. All of this wouldn't matter if I had kissed her. Instead, we all know she's high buying temperature. I know that it won't take much for a dude to kiss her and pull her. I had to keep watching her and interrupting when the dude started to look like he was getting somewhere. I had to keep interacting and kinoing her occasionally too but I couldn't get her to totally be into me. I think that I also held back a little cause I felt I had messed up a moment and for all the other reasons this set was screwed up from the beginning (Sidegames, me being totally wasted Tuesday, me waiting too long to escalate).
She's gonna kiss English dude:
I guess I have some AMOG skills. You see, I swear this Spanish dude and this English dude got in a fight over her at the end. At least the Spanish dude hit someone as I saw this bouncer had gotten hit somehow at the end of the night. The Spanish dude's friends were holding him back and then they finally left. More on that later. I just mention it cause Tyler/Owen's stuff is so great. When applied properly, you don't get into fights. Dudes are cool even though you're cockblocking them and tooling them massively.
I guess I learned from what happened Tuesday and from that in field video of RSD Ozzie breaking up a couple making out on the dance floor. This is some serious matrix like shit.
We were standing by the shuffleboard/bowling game. I saw this English dude had his arm around PedNurse. He actually had come under the radar. The Spanish dude and the dude from the other club were obvious in their pursuit. This dude seemed to not be sarging her, but then he was starting to escalate more while we were doing this bowling game. They were right in front of me, and I saw her get this look like she was ready to be kissed.(I can sense this from all my field experience, but I guess I was extra tuned into it cause she had given me that look for a second and I had blown it.) Dude was gazing into her eyes and you could tell he was thinking about it.
BTW, I see how stupid that hesitation is now that I got to see it up close and personal. Now I see first hand why they say once you get that feeling that she wants to be kissed, you just do it.That's what real men, real PUA's do. The hesitation is weak and you lose value with the girl.
In this case, it allowed me to break up the makeout.
Yes, you got that right. I remember that moment in Sangria when that girl was about to kiss that dude. I just looked away but I did the right thing this time. I walked the two steps so I was next to them.I put my arm around PedNurse. I said, "Hey man, this is my little sister." I simultaneously put my arm around the dude and said, "You're like my brother." Of course, me doing this ruined the moment, but she was still gazing at him. I tried to turn her towards me. She said something like, "He's protective of me" and put her arm around me Next, I used a version of Tyler's/Owen's old line. I said, "There some gene diversity here (point and Pednurse and I). You guys are too similar. You'll make babies that will be all weird and look like this (make a funny face with your fingers on your ears too). I thought I had stolen her, but dude just sat there, which was actually good. It was actually weird. Part of me thinks this girl, on some level, just wants to be in a MMF threesome cause it's like I keep ending up in this weird situations, but of course, it'll also do to my shitty game earlier. English dude said, "I don't know what to think. This is awkward." I think he tried to tool me by trying to hit me with the gay move. I swear he said something like, "I feel like I should grab his ass" and he touched me for a second.
That was a good move cause pulling the gay move is a type of AMOG tactic.When you hint at a guy being gay or insinuate some gay move like he did, most guys will lose status cause they'll start qualifying by saying, "Hey, I'm not gay man." Most guys here would have let go when the dude pretended to touch me and then he would be alone with the girl. I just stood there. After a few seconds, we got interrupted cause it was someone's turn to play the bowling game.
Last call tug of war:
I knew that the last call was gonna be a pain. I kept trying to pull her out for food, which was the wrong move as she wasn't hungry. I kept hanging around trying to cockblock guys. I wanted to practice and I guess that's there's that bitter side of me that don't want them to get her if I can't get her.I was starting to wing it cause I didn't really know what to do.
The remaining guys were the Spanish and English dudes. The black dude from the other club had busted out, though he was still hanging around. I had to drive so I had stopped drinking. Drinking was the key to keeping her attention. They were doing shots and I had to refuse. I kept leaning into her ear and I said several things to her. That's where the dudes were screwing up, now that I think about it. They were close enough to put their arm on her, but they weren't getting really close. English dude seemed to be doing the best. He hadn't kissed her cause I broke that up, but he was close to her and she kept looking and talking to him.
Here's the stuff I remember saying to her:
"Look at all these suitors pursuing you.& I know you love it."
"How are you gonna decide which of these two guys to take home?"
"I see you're player. A player recognizes game."
I don't know if these were the best lines but it's what I came up with in the time. I guess it cockblocked them in a way as me verbalizing what's going on makes her want to not do it. The funny thing with this whole thing is that you would think these dudes would hate me. It's happened to me long ago with that redhead that got stolen on me on one of the first time Seagull and I went out. It was because I was being a dick to try to bust him out. This time, all my cockblocking was under the radar and looks like I'm just having fun and being cool. As I'm writing this, I realize I missed a key element. If she had friends with, I would have told them that the guys were creepy. I could have told her that. I could have said, "OMG, what's with these creepy guys?"& The usual response would be that she'll start to view them as creepy.
Near the end, I felt like I had lost. I kept telling her, "Let's go!" and she wouldn't come with even though Sidegames had her jacket. BTW, Sidegames said something that seemed to help AMOG. He said, "Hey, after party at PedNurse's place." It was brilliant in that obviously she wasn't gonna agree to that and I could see how the vision of that would make it less likely for her to take anyone home.
The place started kicking every one out. At this point, I figured the English dude had won so I asked her straight up, cause I was worried I was being annoying to her, "Do you want to go home with this guy? It's cool if you do."
The thing is, I really meant that. I had been doing all this AMOGing and I just knew she wasn't gonna hook up with me. If she wanted this dude, then I was just gonna let it happen. She immediately responded with social conditioning, "I don't do that." I know girls do this and when a conversation came up early in the night about women and sex, I had made my nonjudgmental position clear. I immediately replied, "Come on, we all do that." She admitted, "Okay, I don't do that any more." I said, "Look, it's cool. I told you I don't judge."
Sidegames, in the car, tried to say that he backed off a bit at end cause he wanted to test if she was a slut who would go home with these guys. I told him that this is what happens at bars. I told him to lose the Madonna/whore complex. I honestly wouldn't look at her any less if she fucked the dude cause I don't think that's wrong. Besides, I'm trying to hook up with girls every time I'm out so I'm not gonna have a double standard and look down upon women who do what I seek to do.
Shortly after that, I left cause the bouncers were being more adamant about leaving. Sidegames had said that we have her coat so she should have to come out and come to us.
Fight:
No, not me silly :) I think that Spanish dude either got in a fight with the English dude or the bouncer. I remember he was trying to go back in to pull her and they wouldn't let anyone back in. Suddenly, I saw the Spanish dude's friends holding him back. The doorman had a cut under his eye like he had gotten hit either stopping the Spanish dude, or breaking up a fight with the English dude. The door man said everyone that was loitering in front should leave or they were gonna call the cops. I saw a bartender and I knew they now PedNurse since she's a regular. I said, "Hey, this is Pednurse's coat," and gave it to her. We walked away in defeat as I really felt like the English dude was pulling.
My field reports from each night. Note: I do minimal editing. Skip to the headings that sound interesting in each post if you see an intimidating wall of text. I post these entries mainly so I can review the night and figure out where I could have done better rather than refining it specifically for readers.
Friday, April 22, 2011
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Can u pick me up I'm lonely: Day 2 scheduling problems
I just remembered I got texts from that girl I took home on Friday including:
Can u pick me up I'm lonely
Wow. I guess I could have picked her up and probably got laid. The thing was, I was drunk at Joe's and busy sarging. It put things in perspective when it comes to Day 2. Of course, I'd be more than happy to pick her up but I was doing something.
I realized that I was worrying too much about not converting some of these number closes. As Tyler/Owen said long ago, girls live in the emotion of the moment. They can love you at the club and then hate you on the phone or you can think a girl won't pick up the phone or meet up with you cause it was a short interaction, and then she'll love you. I get aggravated some time that I haven't had much success getting Day 2's. I realized though, that some of these Day 2's that respond might actually want to meet up. In fact, that one girl did come out to meet last Tuesday in that debacle I had. The thing is that they are busy too. Like I wanted to pick up that girl who sent me the text but the logistics were just not feasible that night. (I did mention picking her up after Joe's but she didn't respond to that and it wouldn't have been possible with the food extraction that ended up happening anyway.) With some of my number closes, I might not be striking at the right time and I can't expect them to make special time for me. Club is also just flaky in general when it comes to Day 2's. The best way to ensure another meeting it to lay the girl. Of course, that means you were good or at least decent in bed. When you lay them, the dynamic changes and they usually want to hang out with more. Of course, you can increase the odds of meeting up again by running a solid interaction. Kino escalate well, move the girl around the club, extract her for food, etc.
Bottom line is I should keep in touch with the numbers and keep trying to set up meets.
Can u pick me up I'm lonely
Wow. I guess I could have picked her up and probably got laid. The thing was, I was drunk at Joe's and busy sarging. It put things in perspective when it comes to Day 2. Of course, I'd be more than happy to pick her up but I was doing something.
I realized that I was worrying too much about not converting some of these number closes. As Tyler/Owen said long ago, girls live in the emotion of the moment. They can love you at the club and then hate you on the phone or you can think a girl won't pick up the phone or meet up with you cause it was a short interaction, and then she'll love you. I get aggravated some time that I haven't had much success getting Day 2's. I realized though, that some of these Day 2's that respond might actually want to meet up. In fact, that one girl did come out to meet last Tuesday in that debacle I had. The thing is that they are busy too. Like I wanted to pick up that girl who sent me the text but the logistics were just not feasible that night. (I did mention picking her up after Joe's but she didn't respond to that and it wouldn't have been possible with the food extraction that ended up happening anyway.) With some of my number closes, I might not be striking at the right time and I can't expect them to make special time for me. Club is also just flaky in general when it comes to Day 2's. The best way to ensure another meeting it to lay the girl. Of course, that means you were good or at least decent in bed. When you lay them, the dynamic changes and they usually want to hang out with more. Of course, you can increase the odds of meeting up again by running a solid interaction. Kino escalate well, move the girl around the club, extract her for food, etc.
Bottom line is I should keep in touch with the numbers and keep trying to set up meets.
Food Extraction while wasted
I met up with Sidegames at Joe's. He had been out in the city and got to Joe's early. I had to brave a drenching storm to finally get to Joe's. Sidegames has potential in that he doesn't give a fuck, in the right way. For example, he was hungry and we saw these two blondes get their pizza order. Sidegames talked about getting a slice from them and then he went up and asked them. At the time, I was hesitant to do so. If he can keep that same attitude while opening and working sets, he'll have an easy time. He also is cool with coming into sets that I've opened and he has good conversation skills.
The first set I opened is the set we stayed with the entire time. I opened this 3-set by the door. I actually was making a mistake while talking to them cause I was standing and not sitting down. The extra chair had a girl's stuff on it, and I knew I should sit down. Fortunately, one of the girls said, "You can sit down" and she made the girl move her stuff.
Sidegames came into the set and we all were chatting for about an hour when Seagull showed up. As soon as he walked in, I introduced him to the set. He ended up sarging the girl I originally approached. I had changed my target to this blonde. The set ended up saying they had to go. As they were walking out, Seagull commented that his target looked reluctant to leave. Seagull then said, "Why didn't I number close her?"
I left to take a piss and I guess Sidegames left also. When I returned, I saw two girls sitting by Seagull. I guess the cutest girl had to go home but these two had returned. Obviously, that's a huge IOI. The girls must have decided their evening would be more fun by staying.
I got totally plastered cause I knew Sidegames could drive us home. I knew it was stupid to do so in terms of sarging but I wanted to do it. The last three times, I'd get drunk off the one pitcher and then I'd stop so I could be sober at closing time and drive home. The girls kept ordering pitchers. They ordered two pitchers and then I ordered a third. This was in addition to the full pitcher I drank with the pizza and part of a second pitcher I ordered with dessert.
In my drunkenness, I guess I still have some awareness for game. I kept trying to isolate my target to the dance floor area but she kept making the excuse that she wanted to stay with her friend. I was too drunk to actually create the isolation move. I know that if I was sober, I would have pumped her state and then been more dominant with the move to the back. Seagull tells me my kino was good, but I felt it was weak. I remember standing close to her so at least I was doing that right. I guess I could have asked Sidegames to give me some isolation with her. Instead, I gave him isolation at one point cause I walked in back.
I found my Latino buddy by the dance floor. I danced by them and tried to look for more sets. I remember opening a few but I was too wasted and didn't get anywhere. Eventually, I came back to the blonde. She was still talking with Sidegames and Seagull still had his girl isolated. I found out today that he made out with her and was dancing and making out with her most of the time.
The Food Extraction:
It's so rare for me to get so drunk that my memory is hazy. The last time this happened was two New Years ago. I was drunk at this wedding reception two weeks ago. I was more drunk than usual but I still remembered every thing that happened. Last night, many parts were foggy. For example, I remember pushing a bit for the food extraction but I don't remember the details. I had to debrief Seagull and after I write this, I'll actually debrief Sidegames.
I remember Greektown Gyros being mentioned. I also remember Seagull mentioning Clarke's. I then remember pushing strongly for Elly's Pancake house cause it was close and I get miles from the place. I then remember walking to the car with Greg and the blonde. The other girl rode with Seagull. I remember letting the girl take the front seat in my car which I know I wouldn't do sober but I guess I just didn't care at the time.
Seagull told me that there was some resistance to the food extraction. That's normal. Seagull's girl wanted to go, of course, cause she had been making out with Seagull. The blonde said she was tired and I guess Sidegames said he was tired too. Of course, I was pushing for it cause extractions are always fun. Seagull said he remember letting the girls talk it out and he just felt like it was gonna happen. The girls decided to go and the rest is history.
Elly's:
Elly's is a good venue. Sidegames and I actually had eaten at the one in Arlington Heights at like 6am Tuesday morning. I remember telling him that in 24 hours we'd be with girls at a diner, and it was cool that we made that prediction true. We had ordered this apple pancake in the morning that takes 40 minutes to cook. That thing is good. I ate the leftovers when I got up this evening. At this Elly's, I ordered an omelete and I remember having a conversation about hot sauce. The place must be good cause there were a bunch of Chicago cops eating there which in my mind mean's the food is good.
Greg offered them a ride home and we dropped them off in Lincoln Park. I was so wasted that the whole ride home I was yelling shit and annoying Sidegames. I fell right asleep when I got home and ended up waking up at like 8:30am. I coudln't sleep for like 4 hours and then ended up sleeping till 5:30PM today. I'm planning on going to Caddy in a half hour or so for more beast mode sarging. This time I'll drink little to nothing. Sidegames seems like he doesn't want to go. If there's any place I should be happy with going out alone, it's Caddy. I've had a blast every week I've been there and progressed a ton.
The first set I opened is the set we stayed with the entire time. I opened this 3-set by the door. I actually was making a mistake while talking to them cause I was standing and not sitting down. The extra chair had a girl's stuff on it, and I knew I should sit down. Fortunately, one of the girls said, "You can sit down" and she made the girl move her stuff.
Sidegames came into the set and we all were chatting for about an hour when Seagull showed up. As soon as he walked in, I introduced him to the set. He ended up sarging the girl I originally approached. I had changed my target to this blonde. The set ended up saying they had to go. As they were walking out, Seagull commented that his target looked reluctant to leave. Seagull then said, "Why didn't I number close her?"
I left to take a piss and I guess Sidegames left also. When I returned, I saw two girls sitting by Seagull. I guess the cutest girl had to go home but these two had returned. Obviously, that's a huge IOI. The girls must have decided their evening would be more fun by staying.
I got totally plastered cause I knew Sidegames could drive us home. I knew it was stupid to do so in terms of sarging but I wanted to do it. The last three times, I'd get drunk off the one pitcher and then I'd stop so I could be sober at closing time and drive home. The girls kept ordering pitchers. They ordered two pitchers and then I ordered a third. This was in addition to the full pitcher I drank with the pizza and part of a second pitcher I ordered with dessert.
In my drunkenness, I guess I still have some awareness for game. I kept trying to isolate my target to the dance floor area but she kept making the excuse that she wanted to stay with her friend. I was too drunk to actually create the isolation move. I know that if I was sober, I would have pumped her state and then been more dominant with the move to the back. Seagull tells me my kino was good, but I felt it was weak. I remember standing close to her so at least I was doing that right. I guess I could have asked Sidegames to give me some isolation with her. Instead, I gave him isolation at one point cause I walked in back.
I found my Latino buddy by the dance floor. I danced by them and tried to look for more sets. I remember opening a few but I was too wasted and didn't get anywhere. Eventually, I came back to the blonde. She was still talking with Sidegames and Seagull still had his girl isolated. I found out today that he made out with her and was dancing and making out with her most of the time.
The Food Extraction:
It's so rare for me to get so drunk that my memory is hazy. The last time this happened was two New Years ago. I was drunk at this wedding reception two weeks ago. I was more drunk than usual but I still remembered every thing that happened. Last night, many parts were foggy. For example, I remember pushing a bit for the food extraction but I don't remember the details. I had to debrief Seagull and after I write this, I'll actually debrief Sidegames.
I remember Greektown Gyros being mentioned. I also remember Seagull mentioning Clarke's. I then remember pushing strongly for Elly's Pancake house cause it was close and I get miles from the place. I then remember walking to the car with Greg and the blonde. The other girl rode with Seagull. I remember letting the girl take the front seat in my car which I know I wouldn't do sober but I guess I just didn't care at the time.
Seagull told me that there was some resistance to the food extraction. That's normal. Seagull's girl wanted to go, of course, cause she had been making out with Seagull. The blonde said she was tired and I guess Sidegames said he was tired too. Of course, I was pushing for it cause extractions are always fun. Seagull said he remember letting the girls talk it out and he just felt like it was gonna happen. The girls decided to go and the rest is history.
Elly's:
Elly's is a good venue. Sidegames and I actually had eaten at the one in Arlington Heights at like 6am Tuesday morning. I remember telling him that in 24 hours we'd be with girls at a diner, and it was cool that we made that prediction true. We had ordered this apple pancake in the morning that takes 40 minutes to cook. That thing is good. I ate the leftovers when I got up this evening. At this Elly's, I ordered an omelete and I remember having a conversation about hot sauce. The place must be good cause there were a bunch of Chicago cops eating there which in my mind mean's the food is good.
Greg offered them a ride home and we dropped them off in Lincoln Park. I was so wasted that the whole ride home I was yelling shit and annoying Sidegames. I fell right asleep when I got home and ended up waking up at like 8:30am. I coudln't sleep for like 4 hours and then ended up sleeping till 5:30PM today. I'm planning on going to Caddy in a half hour or so for more beast mode sarging. This time I'll drink little to nothing. Sidegames seems like he doesn't want to go. If there's any place I should be happy with going out alone, it's Caddy. I've had a blast every week I've been there and progressed a ton.
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Warpig hates me and then likes me
Today, my old roommate Sidegames moved back in which is good cause I need the money right now. I picked him up from the train station and I told him we were going to Lincoln Park to take advantage of the food and drink deal and so I could sarge. The bar was busy cause of the Bulls game. I figured it was good practice for opening. I was dressed like shit and wearing my glasses which I know doesn't matter.
I opened this nerdy looking girl with glasses. She was my first set and I just bailed cause it didn't seem to be going anywhere. I suppose I could have plowed. I ate my $1 sliders and then opened this 4-set that was next to us. I opened this girl with glasses. The cutest girls in the set was next to her. She loved my tall ship future adventures projection. She was smiling at me right away and was trying to talk me up to the warpig leader of the set. This chick was probably the ugliest girl in the set and the largest. She was so loud and kept giving me a lot of bullshit about how I need to consult her if I want to talk to any of the girls. I kept smiling because I'm used to BS from all my years doing this but she gave me more shit than I've gotten in a long time. (Yeah, I got told to fuck off on Friday but this was more just bullshit she was telling me.) I think I'm finally done hearing her shit and can talk to the set but she tells me it's "girls night" out and tells me to go away.
Sidegames and I hang out and as we're about to leave I open two other sets. One is this cute brunette from Louisiana. Sidegames surprised me by coming up right away. I had to take a piss so I directed him to go talk to the set and he did so. I went to open this redhead that caught my eye but I couldn't get anything going with her.
When I went to the bathroom, the cute girl from the 4-set saw me there and said, "Hey, what was your name again?" I actually hadn't noticed it was her standing in line for the bathroom (each is just a one person bathroom) until she opened me. Obviously she liked me. I had to piss so I told her I'd be back. When I came out, she was back by the table. The warpig saw me and all of a sudden was all friendly. She smiled and hugged me.
Sidegames and I were thinking about this and a contributing factor had to be that jealously plotline idea from Mystery. They had to have noticed me working other sets and gained attraction. I tell them to come to Joe's on Tuesday. The warpig tells me to come to Durkins on Thursdays cause they would be there. I told her I might go, but I usually go to Lion Head. She said I should go there if I wanted to see them again. I tried to number close but she said to meet them there. I might show up cause at least I might see them there and I'll be able to sarge the cute girl or I can use them as social proof for other sets.
With Sidegames living here and not working right now, I think he's gonna be out sarging with me. He says he has nothing to do anyway. We're going to Joe's tonight so we'll see what happens.
I opened this nerdy looking girl with glasses. She was my first set and I just bailed cause it didn't seem to be going anywhere. I suppose I could have plowed. I ate my $1 sliders and then opened this 4-set that was next to us. I opened this girl with glasses. The cutest girls in the set was next to her. She loved my tall ship future adventures projection. She was smiling at me right away and was trying to talk me up to the warpig leader of the set. This chick was probably the ugliest girl in the set and the largest. She was so loud and kept giving me a lot of bullshit about how I need to consult her if I want to talk to any of the girls. I kept smiling because I'm used to BS from all my years doing this but she gave me more shit than I've gotten in a long time. (Yeah, I got told to fuck off on Friday but this was more just bullshit she was telling me.) I think I'm finally done hearing her shit and can talk to the set but she tells me it's "girls night" out and tells me to go away.
Sidegames and I hang out and as we're about to leave I open two other sets. One is this cute brunette from Louisiana. Sidegames surprised me by coming up right away. I had to take a piss so I directed him to go talk to the set and he did so. I went to open this redhead that caught my eye but I couldn't get anything going with her.
When I went to the bathroom, the cute girl from the 4-set saw me there and said, "Hey, what was your name again?" I actually hadn't noticed it was her standing in line for the bathroom (each is just a one person bathroom) until she opened me. Obviously she liked me. I had to piss so I told her I'd be back. When I came out, she was back by the table. The warpig saw me and all of a sudden was all friendly. She smiled and hugged me.
Sidegames and I were thinking about this and a contributing factor had to be that jealously plotline idea from Mystery. They had to have noticed me working other sets and gained attraction. I tell them to come to Joe's on Tuesday. The warpig tells me to come to Durkins on Thursdays cause they would be there. I told her I might go, but I usually go to Lion Head. She said I should go there if I wanted to see them again. I tried to number close but she said to meet them there. I might show up cause at least I might see them there and I'll be able to sarge the cute girl or I can use them as social proof for other sets.
With Sidegames living here and not working right now, I think he's gonna be out sarging with me. He says he has nothing to do anyway. We're going to Joe's tonight so we'll see what happens.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Girl hates me, but Seagull and I end up having food with her after
Saturday night, Seagull and I were all over the place. I was surprised that I was inside my head a lot at the beginning. It's probably cause part of me felt I had to duplicate recent results, but I'm aware enough to tell myself I need to just be happy with approaching and pushing my comfort levels. We discovered this place called "English" near the Rock n' Roll McDonalds. I had heard that the RSD bootcamp hits that place so I wanted to check it out. It is a good venue. It has three different floors. There were a ton of girls and some really hot ones too.
Not nervous with a smoking hot blonde:
These three weeks of beast mode have really taken away any anxiety I feel while out in the field. Sure, when I push my comfort levels, I'll feel a little uneasy, but that almost never happens on approach and early in the set. I opened these two sisters that were sitting on this covered pool table. The one I was talking to had awesome legs and was hot overall. I felt like I was talking to any other girl. The only problem was she wasn't that responsive. At least, my internals were right. I think I started to qualify myself by just plowing with too many stories. I tried getting her to talk but she seemed to be boring. I'm not sure if that's a result of her actually not having much of a personality, or because I just hadn't hooked her.
What I would have done differently if I could repeat the set was more kino and more breaking rapport tonality. It was early in the night so I wasn't totally warmed up at this point. I never was really busted out and maybe I should have plowed some more. Seagull and I were debating whether or not to leave the set but we ended up leaving. The set hadn't popped but maybe it would have if I kept kino escalating and pushing.
Eating Portillo's in another pizza place:
I had to deal with some social pressure. I wanted a combo sandwich and Seagull wanted a slice of pizza. I decided to bring my beef to the pizza place and eat it along with a drink from the pizza place. When I was almost done, the owner came up and said, "Are you almost done with that? This is X pizza place and not Portillo's." For a second I caught myself qualifying myself, "He wanted pizza so where here.." and then I just stopped. I knew it was cool what I was doing cause I gave the guy good margins on paying for his pop, and my buddy was eating pizza here and giving him that money. He also had a point though that he didn't want all the customers seeing someone else's food so I just replied, "I understand man. Cool." I finished the sandwich and threw out the bag but I did feel some pressure at the time but handled it. I mention this because prior to the game I had a hard time dealing with situations like this and might have been afraid to even bring the sandwich in.
Off To Wicker:
Orginally, we were gonna try to meet up with G, but the venue he mentioned had a really long line. In fact, when we got to Hubbard, there were lines for everything there too. Theory wanted $10 cover. The place is cool but not worth that cover. I'd rather pay $20 for a real club if I'm gonna pay cover. Seagull and I decided to hit Wicker Park early (this was about midnight). Nothing really eventful happened until cans. There was this high energy set dancing to the Britney Spears song that was on. I danced by them and then opened. I liked how I created the male to woman conversation right off the bat and was really in her personal space. The girl and I shared a love of food. I tried to number close her but she wanted to take my number. I know that is usually shitty but I didn't know what else to do. I think she is gonna google me cause she asked for my last name, which probably means she's really not gonna call me, but whatever..
Harpoon Time:
I had a blast telling people it was an hour till "Harpoon" time. I says it's when I lower my standards and go to pull any female home. (I guess the ruder way of saying it is that I lower my standards and go for the fatties.) The guys loved it. I even said to a girl set, "One hour till harpoon time." They asked me what that meant and I just said, "That's two hours until closing time." I'm gonna try it again when I'm out and field test saying, "It's that magical time of night when both guys and girls lower their standards for going home with someone tonight."
Couldn't choose a target:
I opened this set at Nick's. It was a 2-set at the time. One was this really cute brunette and the other was this girl who had reddis hair but wasn't at cute. I wavered on choosing the target. The redhead seemed to be higher buying temperature and was touching my necklace. The brunette was way cute. I chose her. She mentions she's moving to Denver cause her boyfriend was there. The one thing I noticed though is that I turn down game when girls mention boyfriends. I shouldn't do that. I know how this works. I should keep escalating regardless. Seagull did well with the friend. He isolated her in back to "show her the trees." My girl showed some resistance when the redhead said that's why they were going in back, but I tried to help it along.
I learned about second Fridays at the art galleries in the Pilsen area. I love learning about new events in the city. While I was talking to my target, this girl and some dude showed up. The third girl wouldn't acknowledge me, but I kept trying to plow anyway. It was the art gallery talk that finally opened her up. I ended up getting up to work other sets. Seagull said he blew the set cause he caused discomfort by not going for the kiss close when she obviously wanted it.
That girl hates me:
I opened this girl with a blue sweater on at Flatiron. I remember that she just didn't like me. She tried to tell me some other girl was her "girlfriend (as in lover)" and I told her I knew lesbians since I hung out with one at Green Dolphin and I knew she wasn't put out that vibe. I kept plowing but she just didn't like me. Later, near closing time, Seagull and I were talking. I was ready to just push to try to close something fast. Seagull spotted that same girl. I told him the girl hated me but he should try as she might like him.
He's in the set for awhile. Around closing time, I'm outside, and this art guy, this brunette, that girl and Seagull end up standing outside the entrance. I almost get the art guy busted cause we started talking about the art studios upstairs. He says, "My girl has a fashion studio up there." Seagull's girl asked, "Your girlfriend?" The guy made up some BS but it was obvious he had been caught. He was trying to pull the other girl. We think he ended up doing it anyway but it was funny. I tried to venue change everyone for food.
Suddenly, Seagulls girl walks off without really saying anything. Seagull says the girl told him she'd come eat if he paid for her. Now, we both hate paying for shit, but $5-6 for a food extraction didn't seem that bad of an idea. He ran after her, which I commend him for. I would have felt creepy doing it, but he was able to get her to come for food with us. I was wondering how this was gonna go down cause I remember her not liking me.
The thing is, it's the old community adage about girls living in the moment. She didn't like me when I opened her, but she was cool with eating with us. That's how it works. That's why you can approach girls again even if they walked off on you earlier.
Pushing for the close:
I can just tell that I'm gonna get a ton of pulls this summer for food or home because I just push for it now. I almost never pushed for it before. It was too cold for street game after closing time; there way literally no one outside. Everyone headed to their cars or got in cabs right away. Right around last call, I approached sets with the purpose of showing a ton of intent and escalating right away. I found this chubby blonde. I did Jeffy's, "OMG, you're awesome. I love you." I didn't go for make out immediately though. The girl was drunk and high buying temperature. My face was so close that I accidentally touched her cheek with my mouth at one point. I kept pushing for the food extraction but she resisted. I tried saying, "Tell you're friends you're coming with me." I ended up talking to one of the other girls and tried to sell her on the pull.
My original target didn't want to go. At one point, she grabs and orbiter guy and tries to tell me it's her boyfriend. I make a big joke out of it cause I can tell it's not her boyfriend. I tell him, "Dude, can't you see she's giving you the 'rescue me' eye code. You know, when you talk to girls, and they give the other girl a look, and that girls sweeps them away to the bathroom or bar? She's doing that now." The guy started laughing. I then left cause the girl didn't seem to be buying my pull attempt.
Seagull and I were talking about how though Division has sucked lately, it will be cool when it's warm again. There are so many people just standing on the streets while the bar is open and after closing time. That's the perfect place for the Jeffy line and going for the instant makeout. It's also a great place to work on dealing with AMOG's and stealing girls off other dudes. I can't wait.
Not nervous with a smoking hot blonde:
These three weeks of beast mode have really taken away any anxiety I feel while out in the field. Sure, when I push my comfort levels, I'll feel a little uneasy, but that almost never happens on approach and early in the set. I opened these two sisters that were sitting on this covered pool table. The one I was talking to had awesome legs and was hot overall. I felt like I was talking to any other girl. The only problem was she wasn't that responsive. At least, my internals were right. I think I started to qualify myself by just plowing with too many stories. I tried getting her to talk but she seemed to be boring. I'm not sure if that's a result of her actually not having much of a personality, or because I just hadn't hooked her.
What I would have done differently if I could repeat the set was more kino and more breaking rapport tonality. It was early in the night so I wasn't totally warmed up at this point. I never was really busted out and maybe I should have plowed some more. Seagull and I were debating whether or not to leave the set but we ended up leaving. The set hadn't popped but maybe it would have if I kept kino escalating and pushing.
Eating Portillo's in another pizza place:
I had to deal with some social pressure. I wanted a combo sandwich and Seagull wanted a slice of pizza. I decided to bring my beef to the pizza place and eat it along with a drink from the pizza place. When I was almost done, the owner came up and said, "Are you almost done with that? This is X pizza place and not Portillo's." For a second I caught myself qualifying myself, "He wanted pizza so where here.." and then I just stopped. I knew it was cool what I was doing cause I gave the guy good margins on paying for his pop, and my buddy was eating pizza here and giving him that money. He also had a point though that he didn't want all the customers seeing someone else's food so I just replied, "I understand man. Cool." I finished the sandwich and threw out the bag but I did feel some pressure at the time but handled it. I mention this because prior to the game I had a hard time dealing with situations like this and might have been afraid to even bring the sandwich in.
Off To Wicker:
Orginally, we were gonna try to meet up with G, but the venue he mentioned had a really long line. In fact, when we got to Hubbard, there were lines for everything there too. Theory wanted $10 cover. The place is cool but not worth that cover. I'd rather pay $20 for a real club if I'm gonna pay cover. Seagull and I decided to hit Wicker Park early (this was about midnight). Nothing really eventful happened until cans. There was this high energy set dancing to the Britney Spears song that was on. I danced by them and then opened. I liked how I created the male to woman conversation right off the bat and was really in her personal space. The girl and I shared a love of food. I tried to number close her but she wanted to take my number. I know that is usually shitty but I didn't know what else to do. I think she is gonna google me cause she asked for my last name, which probably means she's really not gonna call me, but whatever..
Harpoon Time:
I had a blast telling people it was an hour till "Harpoon" time. I says it's when I lower my standards and go to pull any female home. (I guess the ruder way of saying it is that I lower my standards and go for the fatties.) The guys loved it. I even said to a girl set, "One hour till harpoon time." They asked me what that meant and I just said, "That's two hours until closing time." I'm gonna try it again when I'm out and field test saying, "It's that magical time of night when both guys and girls lower their standards for going home with someone tonight."
Couldn't choose a target:
I opened this set at Nick's. It was a 2-set at the time. One was this really cute brunette and the other was this girl who had reddis hair but wasn't at cute. I wavered on choosing the target. The redhead seemed to be higher buying temperature and was touching my necklace. The brunette was way cute. I chose her. She mentions she's moving to Denver cause her boyfriend was there. The one thing I noticed though is that I turn down game when girls mention boyfriends. I shouldn't do that. I know how this works. I should keep escalating regardless. Seagull did well with the friend. He isolated her in back to "show her the trees." My girl showed some resistance when the redhead said that's why they were going in back, but I tried to help it along.
I learned about second Fridays at the art galleries in the Pilsen area. I love learning about new events in the city. While I was talking to my target, this girl and some dude showed up. The third girl wouldn't acknowledge me, but I kept trying to plow anyway. It was the art gallery talk that finally opened her up. I ended up getting up to work other sets. Seagull said he blew the set cause he caused discomfort by not going for the kiss close when she obviously wanted it.
That girl hates me:
I opened this girl with a blue sweater on at Flatiron. I remember that she just didn't like me. She tried to tell me some other girl was her "girlfriend (as in lover)" and I told her I knew lesbians since I hung out with one at Green Dolphin and I knew she wasn't put out that vibe. I kept plowing but she just didn't like me. Later, near closing time, Seagull and I were talking. I was ready to just push to try to close something fast. Seagull spotted that same girl. I told him the girl hated me but he should try as she might like him.
He's in the set for awhile. Around closing time, I'm outside, and this art guy, this brunette, that girl and Seagull end up standing outside the entrance. I almost get the art guy busted cause we started talking about the art studios upstairs. He says, "My girl has a fashion studio up there." Seagull's girl asked, "Your girlfriend?" The guy made up some BS but it was obvious he had been caught. He was trying to pull the other girl. We think he ended up doing it anyway but it was funny. I tried to venue change everyone for food.
Suddenly, Seagulls girl walks off without really saying anything. Seagull says the girl told him she'd come eat if he paid for her. Now, we both hate paying for shit, but $5-6 for a food extraction didn't seem that bad of an idea. He ran after her, which I commend him for. I would have felt creepy doing it, but he was able to get her to come for food with us. I was wondering how this was gonna go down cause I remember her not liking me.
The thing is, it's the old community adage about girls living in the moment. She didn't like me when I opened her, but she was cool with eating with us. That's how it works. That's why you can approach girls again even if they walked off on you earlier.
Pushing for the close:
I can just tell that I'm gonna get a ton of pulls this summer for food or home because I just push for it now. I almost never pushed for it before. It was too cold for street game after closing time; there way literally no one outside. Everyone headed to their cars or got in cabs right away. Right around last call, I approached sets with the purpose of showing a ton of intent and escalating right away. I found this chubby blonde. I did Jeffy's, "OMG, you're awesome. I love you." I didn't go for make out immediately though. The girl was drunk and high buying temperature. My face was so close that I accidentally touched her cheek with my mouth at one point. I kept pushing for the food extraction but she resisted. I tried saying, "Tell you're friends you're coming with me." I ended up talking to one of the other girls and tried to sell her on the pull.
My original target didn't want to go. At one point, she grabs and orbiter guy and tries to tell me it's her boyfriend. I make a big joke out of it cause I can tell it's not her boyfriend. I tell him, "Dude, can't you see she's giving you the 'rescue me' eye code. You know, when you talk to girls, and they give the other girl a look, and that girls sweeps them away to the bathroom or bar? She's doing that now." The guy started laughing. I then left cause the girl didn't seem to be buying my pull attempt.
Seagull and I were talking about how though Division has sucked lately, it will be cool when it's warm again. There are so many people just standing on the streets while the bar is open and after closing time. That's the perfect place for the Jeffy line and going for the instant makeout. It's also a great place to work on dealing with AMOG's and stealing girls off other dudes. I can't wait.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Next time, I'm getting my self off first
I wrote last time that the girl was lying in my bed as I was on the computer playing WoW and writing a blog entry. I got sleepy and went to bed. I gotta say again that it's nice to cuddle with a girl as opposed to being alone. She woked up around 8am. I'm glad we didn't really mess around last night cause she was totally drunk, even more than I thought. She asked, "How did I get here?" I had to explain that their guy friend took home her friend and she came here with me. I told her we stopped at McDonald's and Burger King and then came here.
"How did you get me to come home with you?" she asked. I just shrugged.
We cuddled and tried to sleep some more. After about ten minutes, she said she couldn't sleep anymore. I started kissing her, and soon we were making out. I tried to undo her bra and I felt dumb cause I couldn't get it. I asked her to do it and she did it reluctantly and said, "I should have to undo my own bra."
I told my buddy that larger girls look better when they are lying on their back in your bed. Her breasts were actually nice and I complimented her on it and she responded, "I know." Lol. Okay. I was escalating slow but then I decided to just reach down and I was surprised how wet she was. The other large girl I was with two years ago also got super wet, which is cool. I pulled her pants and panties off and I was fingering her.
Here's where I screwed up. I knew I could grab a condom and start having sex but I figured there was no rush. She directed my hand a little bit so it was stimulating her the way she liked. Suddenly, though, she stops me and pulls her pants up. She rolls to the side and says she has to go home. Dammit!
As I told one of my buddies, it's funny how she was asleep at my bed and I wrote on her that I wasn't sure if I wanted to mess around with her. Then, in the morning, I don't think anything is gonna happen and then we start getting it on and I'm actually getting turned on. I decide to try to get her off first and I get left unsatisfied. This had happened to me in my distant past when I was an AFC. Next time, I'll just be selfish and concentrate on getting my self off first.
I don't know what to think. I guess I should have banged her cause I haven't been inside a woman for far too long but I guess it doesn't really matter.
Awkward drive:
So she gets dressed and I drive her home. There's silence. I start talking and she starts bitching about how her clothes have cat fur. I told her I wish she had told me this earlier as I have a lint roller that'll fix it. I tried to talk again after a few minutes. I asked her what she was doing today and she said, "Getting my clothes cleaned." She wouldn't accept that the fur will come off her clothes with a lint roller. I even said, "You act like we spilled coffee on them. Coffee wouldn't come off, but cat fur comes off with a roller." I even offered to buy her a $3 lint roller at Target but she said her sister had one.
Anyway, I guess practice is practice. I had another interesting night. I gotta get out tonight even though I'm tired and try to pull again, hopefully with a nice and better looking girl.
"How did you get me to come home with you?" she asked. I just shrugged.
We cuddled and tried to sleep some more. After about ten minutes, she said she couldn't sleep anymore. I started kissing her, and soon we were making out. I tried to undo her bra and I felt dumb cause I couldn't get it. I asked her to do it and she did it reluctantly and said, "I should have to undo my own bra."
I told my buddy that larger girls look better when they are lying on their back in your bed. Her breasts were actually nice and I complimented her on it and she responded, "I know." Lol. Okay. I was escalating slow but then I decided to just reach down and I was surprised how wet she was. The other large girl I was with two years ago also got super wet, which is cool. I pulled her pants and panties off and I was fingering her.
Here's where I screwed up. I knew I could grab a condom and start having sex but I figured there was no rush. She directed my hand a little bit so it was stimulating her the way she liked. Suddenly, though, she stops me and pulls her pants up. She rolls to the side and says she has to go home. Dammit!
As I told one of my buddies, it's funny how she was asleep at my bed and I wrote on her that I wasn't sure if I wanted to mess around with her. Then, in the morning, I don't think anything is gonna happen and then we start getting it on and I'm actually getting turned on. I decide to try to get her off first and I get left unsatisfied. This had happened to me in my distant past when I was an AFC. Next time, I'll just be selfish and concentrate on getting my self off first.
I don't know what to think. I guess I should have banged her cause I haven't been inside a woman for far too long but I guess it doesn't really matter.
Awkward drive:
So she gets dressed and I drive her home. There's silence. I start talking and she starts bitching about how her clothes have cat fur. I told her I wish she had told me this earlier as I have a lint roller that'll fix it. I tried to talk again after a few minutes. I asked her what she was doing today and she said, "Getting my clothes cleaned." She wouldn't accept that the fur will come off her clothes with a lint roller. I even said, "You act like we spilled coffee on them. Coffee wouldn't come off, but cat fur comes off with a roller." I even offered to buy her a $3 lint roller at Target but she said her sister had one.
Anyway, I guess practice is practice. I had another interesting night. I gotta get out tonight even though I'm tired and try to pull again, hopefully with a nice and better looking girl.
Kiss close and home pull from winging
I actually have mixed feelings about this set and I guess I won't have a final determination for a few hours. Just as we were about to his the after hours, we stopped in this one bar. I opened some blonde and she busted me out quickly. I took a piss and we were ready to leave but I saw Seagull working some girl. I saw she had a large friend so I opened her. This girl was drunk and high buying temperature.
I'd like to think that I'm close to getting the kiss closed solved but I guess I'm too slow still. I knew this chick wanted to kiss but I was stalling. Seagull leaned in and said, "Kiss close." I knew that but hearing it helped so I kissed her.
She asked me to buy her a shot which I was reluctant to do, but then I guess after making out a with a girl, it's not a bad thing to buy her one. She wanted to go to this after hours place near here house which happened to be in a neighboring bar. I tried to exact her and her friend to the bar while dragging Seagull along too. The friend didn't want to leave and I guess there was this guy friend too. I ended up getting the girl to leave with me and she's sleeping in the other room.
I see why guys don't like to pull totally drunk chicks as she passed out as soon as she got here. I'm not sure if I want to do anything now or if she'll even want to do anything when she wakes up. Still, it was a fun adventure anyway. I enjoyed kissing her though and it's cool to cuddle with a girl. Also cool to just practice pulling a girl home here.
I'd like to think that I'm close to getting the kiss closed solved but I guess I'm too slow still. I knew this chick wanted to kiss but I was stalling. Seagull leaned in and said, "Kiss close." I knew that but hearing it helped so I kissed her.
She asked me to buy her a shot which I was reluctant to do, but then I guess after making out a with a girl, it's not a bad thing to buy her one. She wanted to go to this after hours place near here house which happened to be in a neighboring bar. I tried to exact her and her friend to the bar while dragging Seagull along too. The friend didn't want to leave and I guess there was this guy friend too. I ended up getting the girl to leave with me and she's sleeping in the other room.
I see why guys don't like to pull totally drunk chicks as she passed out as soon as she got here. I'm not sure if I want to do anything now or if she'll even want to do anything when she wakes up. Still, it was a fun adventure anyway. I enjoyed kissing her though and it's cool to cuddle with a girl. Also cool to just practice pulling a girl home here.
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