I don't have much time to do a real field report. I stayed up at this girl's place and I had to take the train back here so I could shower and change for the First Friday Event at the Museum of Contemporary Art.
I went to the pub crawl for Cinco De Mayo with the same group of bars as the Bunny Hop bar crawl on Good Friday. This time, the deal wasn't as good as it was only for 3 hours, and only Bud or Bud light drafts, margaritas on the rocks, Mexican buffet food, and the trolley service. The trolley service was good too me this time. I opened a girl who was seated across from me and we hit it off.
I had an awesome time with this girl. She's very open about her sexuality and she reminds me of that friend I have from World of Warcraft. I kiss closed her early on at the bar. I met her friends and they liked me. I remember I had wandered off and this blonde girl told me to sit down and wait for my girl to come back. More details later. I gotta get ready for this MCA event.
I remember sitting in her bathroom and just smiling. I still have a long journey ahead to really live the PUA lifestyle, but Wednesday and Thursday night gave me a good taste of it.
It amused me how I had really nothing for a month, and then bam. I went on that Day2 and messed around in the car on Tuesday. On Wednesday, I had a Day 3 and quickly got a lay to end the drought. Then, Thursday, I get my second same night lay. On top of that, I got to bang two new girls just a day apart. I'm happy, but tonight is another day of cold approaching and building momentum.
Friday, May 6, 2011
Thursday, May 5, 2011
The drought is over
I can't believe I went that long. Guess part of the reason was getting addicted to the WoW and also just hiding out from life twice last year. I vow to try my best never to do that again.
I think this girl told herself she wasn't gonna hook up with me. She told me she was on her period when she wasn't, and she also didn't shave her legs (and was embarassed about that).
I think part of my success was I just threw out that I didn't want sex to change anything between us. It's just something natural that two people do when they are attracted to each other and I still wanted to hang out and stuff like we had already been doing. Sure that's a technique to prevent LMR, but it's also the truth. Karina, as I call her, is pretty cool to hang out with so far. This is in contrast to that girl I pulled from Wicker a few weeks ago.
Some random notes: I need to stop beating off again as it does doing it too much can ruin sex, and I forgot how bad condoms suck.
Field report in Spanish:
Karina got a phone call from a female friend. She started telling her what happpened between us in Spanish. The funny thing is that I can understand some Spanish. I can understand her cause when she speaks it, she's speaks slowly, unlike one of my ex-girlfriends, and she has somewhat of an American accent. My ex girlfriend was born in Mexico so I had a hard time understanding her with her Mexican accent, and cause like all native Spanish speakers, she spoke very fast.
It was amusing hearing a field report about myself. I couldn't understand a few key words, though, so I didn't get the whole picture. Perhaps, it would have been better if I couldn't understand any of it. I heard Karina tell the friend that we were watching a movie and then we basically had sex.
(On a sidenote, we starting escalating on the couch in the living room while we were watching a movie. She showed some resistance early on, but then she started asking if I had a condom. Then she mentioned going to the bedroom. We went there and I figured it would be a state break as it was somewhat of state break for me. I start escalating slowly, and she said something like, "Screw it. You're turning me on too much." She then pulled down her pants and told me to get a condom.)
She said some stuff describing the sex that I couldn't understand. Later, she described how I made her feel and I didn't understand the word she used either. It was either positive or negative, but too but I didn't understand the word, or remember it so I could look it up.
I think this girl told herself she wasn't gonna hook up with me. She told me she was on her period when she wasn't, and she also didn't shave her legs (and was embarassed about that).
I think part of my success was I just threw out that I didn't want sex to change anything between us. It's just something natural that two people do when they are attracted to each other and I still wanted to hang out and stuff like we had already been doing. Sure that's a technique to prevent LMR, but it's also the truth. Karina, as I call her, is pretty cool to hang out with so far. This is in contrast to that girl I pulled from Wicker a few weeks ago.
Some random notes: I need to stop beating off again as it does doing it too much can ruin sex, and I forgot how bad condoms suck.
Field report in Spanish:
Karina got a phone call from a female friend. She started telling her what happpened between us in Spanish. The funny thing is that I can understand some Spanish. I can understand her cause when she speaks it, she's speaks slowly, unlike one of my ex-girlfriends, and she has somewhat of an American accent. My ex girlfriend was born in Mexico so I had a hard time understanding her with her Mexican accent, and cause like all native Spanish speakers, she spoke very fast.
It was amusing hearing a field report about myself. I couldn't understand a few key words, though, so I didn't get the whole picture. Perhaps, it would have been better if I couldn't understand any of it. I heard Karina tell the friend that we were watching a movie and then we basically had sex.
(On a sidenote, we starting escalating on the couch in the living room while we were watching a movie. She showed some resistance early on, but then she started asking if I had a condom. Then she mentioned going to the bedroom. We went there and I figured it would be a state break as it was somewhat of state break for me. I start escalating slowly, and she said something like, "Screw it. You're turning me on too much." She then pulled down her pants and told me to get a condom.)
She said some stuff describing the sex that I couldn't understand. Later, she described how I made her feel and I didn't understand the word she used either. It was either positive or negative, but too but I didn't understand the word, or remember it so I could look it up.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Some rare honesty
We were sitting in front of Karina's place. She didn't want to go in cause her mom was gonna bitch about her being out so late. She's 21 but still lives with her mom. I had already tried to lay out how I'm very open minded when it comes to sex and nonjudgemental. She had been talking about some guy she wanted to see tonight, which would have aggravated most guys. She told me that he was a gay friend that she wanted to see cause they hadn't hung out in forever. At one point, she also told me it was her ex-boyfriend. I actually didn't care. I do want to know the actual truth in the future. I suppose it's kind of weird cause she was asking me to drive her up to see this guy on the North Side. I kept saying I wasn't sure about it, and she had started stroking me more enthusiastically as she kept begging me to drive her there. I remember saying that she was being very convincing and if she got me off, I'd probably do it.
The guy, whatever his story is, didn't answer the phone when she called him. I ended up just driving her home and there we were sitting in the car in front of her place. We kissed for a bit and she started asking me if I was a virgin. I guess my sexual skills are a little off and I probably was getting more turned on that she expected. I told her I wasn't, which is true. She then asked me how long it was since I had sex and I just said "A long time." I asked her when she had sex last and she told me, "Last week." I actually like that she just threw that out there. I love when girls are honest about their sexuality with me. People who know me know I'm open minded about that stuff. After all, I'm try to live a lifestyle where I plan on hooking up with a bunch of girls and I sure not gonna be a hypocrite and judge women for doing that. She asked me how many girls I was in contact with and I said a few. I actually don't have an exact number as girls flake out or something reappear. I asked her how many guys she was seeing and she told me that it was three. She said she had only had sex with one and wasn't really that into the other two.
I gotta admit that I'm a little jealous that the other guy has gotten some pussy and I haven't, but other than that, I don't care. If she had a good time like I did, we'll probably have actual sex next time and then I won't have any bit of jealousy. I actually want a girl that's seeing other guys so she won't be clingy and expect me to hang out all the time. I need time to sarge via cold approach, and I also need time to work on Day2's. Eventually I'll need time to actually see girls that I have some sort of relationship with every week.
The guy, whatever his story is, didn't answer the phone when she called him. I ended up just driving her home and there we were sitting in the car in front of her place. We kissed for a bit and she started asking me if I was a virgin. I guess my sexual skills are a little off and I probably was getting more turned on that she expected. I told her I wasn't, which is true. She then asked me how long it was since I had sex and I just said "A long time." I asked her when she had sex last and she told me, "Last week." I actually like that she just threw that out there. I love when girls are honest about their sexuality with me. People who know me know I'm open minded about that stuff. After all, I'm try to live a lifestyle where I plan on hooking up with a bunch of girls and I sure not gonna be a hypocrite and judge women for doing that. She asked me how many girls I was in contact with and I said a few. I actually don't have an exact number as girls flake out or something reappear. I asked her how many guys she was seeing and she told me that it was three. She said she had only had sex with one and wasn't really that into the other two.
I gotta admit that I'm a little jealous that the other guy has gotten some pussy and I haven't, but other than that, I don't care. If she had a good time like I did, we'll probably have actual sex next time and then I won't have any bit of jealousy. I actually want a girl that's seeing other guys so she won't be clingy and expect me to hang out all the time. I need time to sarge via cold approach, and I also need time to work on Day2's. Eventually I'll need time to actually see girls that I have some sort of relationship with every week.
Finally some sexual content in car
I have the adult disclaimer message for when people log into this blog, but unfortunately, there hasn't been any sexual content... that is until today.
On Friday, I mentioned meeting a girl who I number closed and then kiss closed. Then, I screwed up and overescalated on the dance floor triggering her ASD. I didn't see her again. I figured I screwed up and didn't text her the next day. On Sunday, I was sitting at home and figured it was worth a shot. I sent her a simple text, "Hi." Usually I wouldn't do that. As I hadn't called her phone or text her when I number closed, I knew she wouldn't know who I was. I normally would sign the message. She replied predictably, "Who is this?" I just sent her my name without telling her where I had met her.
I tried to invite her out to see the Top Gun theater showing on Monday, but she said she had to work. Tuesday, she said she was free. I had floated around just coming by to see a movie and I mentioned Joe's. She ended up wanting to go to Joe's, and I also settled on that being a good option. I had Sidegames come with so I could drink. The plan was to have him drive back early so I could try to pull her here. When we got to Joe's, she mentioned wanting to stay out late, so Sidegames actually was a good wingman and took the train home. I can't thank him enough for that. Of course, I'll mention that eventually, I'll end up doing something like that for him.
I was a little slow on the kino. When we picked her up, I was driving and I told Sidegames to give he the front seat. He wanted to sit in front but I told him that I'd wanted to be able to kino. I don't even remember if I kinoed at all in the car. At the restaurant, I held her hand while we were all talking. I was hungry and Sidegames and I talked about getting pizza so we order 3 pizzas. Sidegames and the girl, who I'll call Karina (not her real name), somehow tipped over a cheese pizza and we wasted 80% of that :( We still ended up taking some home and my fat ass ate a few slices just a few minutes ago. I ended up kissing Karina a little sooner than I expected. We were talking and we just decided to kiss.
After Sidegames left, we kept kissing and making out all over the bar. She wanted to dance but no one was on the dance floor, even around 11:30pm, when we left. We still danced and grinded a bit on the dance floor but she didn't like being out there and being the center of attention.
She got really drunk cause she kept wanting more pitchers. We had 4 pitchers total. I drank lot of the first one and a cup from the second one and the rest was her. She kept talking about wanting me to either drive her home or to see some guy who she claimed is a gay friend but might be some guy she wanted. She wanted to leave around 11:30PM and I said I couldn't drive anywhere as I had been drinking with the plan of leaving around 2am.
We can just go to your car and hang out:
She had to tell me that twice before I realized how that was a good idea. I didn't want to leave cause I knew we couldn't get back in, but when she said that the second time, I remember thinking, "Duh? Of course. We can have some privacy in the car."
We got to the car which was parked right off North Ave on one of the somewhat busier streets. As soon as we sat down, we started making out like crazy. It was getting really heated and I knew I had to move the car cause we couldn't do much where I was parked. Her phone rang and she also said she had to pee. We couldn't go back to Joe's so I said we'd find an empty parking lot. Two weeks ago, when I was looking for a spot to park, I realized there were several areas where one could park with relative privacy as the factories in back are closed at night. I took her there. I was wondering if it was secluded enough for her to pee; before I could ponder it she jumped out and ran behind the building. After that, she got back in the car, and I decided to park in back as it looked like the factory was closed.
She kept talking on the phone:
She kept talking on the phone and texting. (Later she borrowed my phone and got a little mad cause she saw that I had sent Sidegames a text saying I thought she was weird.) She was drunk and she would not get off the phone. We were kissing and I escalated more. She was cool with that, yet she kept talking to one of her friends which was annoying. I think she was using it as a way to break her state. I remember early on when things were getting really heated, she went outside to pee and stayed out there talking on the phone. I finally got out and directed her back to the car.
I had fun:
This girl is rather large, but she has a cute face. Like the other girl I took home two weeks ago, she has beautiful breasts. She is a great kisser too; she actually might be the best kisser out of all the girls I've made out with or hooked up with. She really got off on me sucking on her breasts which is a new experience for me. I've never seen a girl get that crazy before with breast play. I tried touching her pussy but she wouldn't let me. She'd let me rub it through her pants but the longest she let me do that was for about twenty seconds. She was soaking wet as I could feel he wetness through her pants.
Thank you Manwhore:
There's this natural that posts on RSD nation called "Manwhore." From PUAhate.com, I found out he was an intern with RSD at one point. Tyler/Owen said that Manwhore is one of the best naturals he's ever met. In his podcast, Manwhore mentioned the technique of putting a girls hands on your cock and then pulling it out when things are getting heavy. He said it short circuits her logic cause most girls are used the the usual escalation methods guys use: that would be, kissing, then feeling up the breasts while kissing, kissing of the breasts, and slowly proceeding to pulling off her shirt, bra, then pants and panties. Manwhore says that whipping out your cock can make all that easier and girl usually will just start playing with it or sucking it when you whip it out. I finally got a chance to try it and he seems to be right.
I remember I was kissing her and sucking on her tits when I whipping out my cock and she started playing with it. The first time, she ran out to pee and talk on the phone probably cause she wanted to lower her buying temperature. Things died down for a bit, but when they started getting heavy, I did this again, and this time she got into really playing with me. I couldn't get her to give me a blowjob, but she gave me a hand job to completion. Yeah, it's not much, but it felt good and it's been awhile since I even had that. I told her after that I didn't like selfish and wished she had let me get her off.
First time in a car, but won't be my last:
Since I was such a late bloomer, I had never had the experience of messing around in cars when I was in high school. By the time I started getting laid, I already had my own place. It was fun and felt naughty cause there was a chance we could get discovered. At one time, this truck drove through the parking lot. We were just making out and we looked at the truck. The truck had slowed down but then just kept driving.
I now will see the car as an option. I remember RSD Ozzie talking about car extractions in Transformations, but it was never in my reality until now. Now, I know a good spot where I can take a girl if I can't bring her home.
On Friday, I mentioned meeting a girl who I number closed and then kiss closed. Then, I screwed up and overescalated on the dance floor triggering her ASD. I didn't see her again. I figured I screwed up and didn't text her the next day. On Sunday, I was sitting at home and figured it was worth a shot. I sent her a simple text, "Hi." Usually I wouldn't do that. As I hadn't called her phone or text her when I number closed, I knew she wouldn't know who I was. I normally would sign the message. She replied predictably, "Who is this?" I just sent her my name without telling her where I had met her.
I tried to invite her out to see the Top Gun theater showing on Monday, but she said she had to work. Tuesday, she said she was free. I had floated around just coming by to see a movie and I mentioned Joe's. She ended up wanting to go to Joe's, and I also settled on that being a good option. I had Sidegames come with so I could drink. The plan was to have him drive back early so I could try to pull her here. When we got to Joe's, she mentioned wanting to stay out late, so Sidegames actually was a good wingman and took the train home. I can't thank him enough for that. Of course, I'll mention that eventually, I'll end up doing something like that for him.
I was a little slow on the kino. When we picked her up, I was driving and I told Sidegames to give he the front seat. He wanted to sit in front but I told him that I'd wanted to be able to kino. I don't even remember if I kinoed at all in the car. At the restaurant, I held her hand while we were all talking. I was hungry and Sidegames and I talked about getting pizza so we order 3 pizzas. Sidegames and the girl, who I'll call Karina (not her real name), somehow tipped over a cheese pizza and we wasted 80% of that :( We still ended up taking some home and my fat ass ate a few slices just a few minutes ago. I ended up kissing Karina a little sooner than I expected. We were talking and we just decided to kiss.
After Sidegames left, we kept kissing and making out all over the bar. She wanted to dance but no one was on the dance floor, even around 11:30pm, when we left. We still danced and grinded a bit on the dance floor but she didn't like being out there and being the center of attention.
She got really drunk cause she kept wanting more pitchers. We had 4 pitchers total. I drank lot of the first one and a cup from the second one and the rest was her. She kept talking about wanting me to either drive her home or to see some guy who she claimed is a gay friend but might be some guy she wanted. She wanted to leave around 11:30PM and I said I couldn't drive anywhere as I had been drinking with the plan of leaving around 2am.
We can just go to your car and hang out:
She had to tell me that twice before I realized how that was a good idea. I didn't want to leave cause I knew we couldn't get back in, but when she said that the second time, I remember thinking, "Duh? Of course. We can have some privacy in the car."
We got to the car which was parked right off North Ave on one of the somewhat busier streets. As soon as we sat down, we started making out like crazy. It was getting really heated and I knew I had to move the car cause we couldn't do much where I was parked. Her phone rang and she also said she had to pee. We couldn't go back to Joe's so I said we'd find an empty parking lot. Two weeks ago, when I was looking for a spot to park, I realized there were several areas where one could park with relative privacy as the factories in back are closed at night. I took her there. I was wondering if it was secluded enough for her to pee; before I could ponder it she jumped out and ran behind the building. After that, she got back in the car, and I decided to park in back as it looked like the factory was closed.
She kept talking on the phone:
She kept talking on the phone and texting. (Later she borrowed my phone and got a little mad cause she saw that I had sent Sidegames a text saying I thought she was weird.) She was drunk and she would not get off the phone. We were kissing and I escalated more. She was cool with that, yet she kept talking to one of her friends which was annoying. I think she was using it as a way to break her state. I remember early on when things were getting really heated, she went outside to pee and stayed out there talking on the phone. I finally got out and directed her back to the car.
I had fun:
This girl is rather large, but she has a cute face. Like the other girl I took home two weeks ago, she has beautiful breasts. She is a great kisser too; she actually might be the best kisser out of all the girls I've made out with or hooked up with. She really got off on me sucking on her breasts which is a new experience for me. I've never seen a girl get that crazy before with breast play. I tried touching her pussy but she wouldn't let me. She'd let me rub it through her pants but the longest she let me do that was for about twenty seconds. She was soaking wet as I could feel he wetness through her pants.
Thank you Manwhore:
There's this natural that posts on RSD nation called "Manwhore." From PUAhate.com, I found out he was an intern with RSD at one point. Tyler/Owen said that Manwhore is one of the best naturals he's ever met. In his podcast, Manwhore mentioned the technique of putting a girls hands on your cock and then pulling it out when things are getting heavy. He said it short circuits her logic cause most girls are used the the usual escalation methods guys use: that would be, kissing, then feeling up the breasts while kissing, kissing of the breasts, and slowly proceeding to pulling off her shirt, bra, then pants and panties. Manwhore says that whipping out your cock can make all that easier and girl usually will just start playing with it or sucking it when you whip it out. I finally got a chance to try it and he seems to be right.
I remember I was kissing her and sucking on her tits when I whipping out my cock and she started playing with it. The first time, she ran out to pee and talk on the phone probably cause she wanted to lower her buying temperature. Things died down for a bit, but when they started getting heavy, I did this again, and this time she got into really playing with me. I couldn't get her to give me a blowjob, but she gave me a hand job to completion. Yeah, it's not much, but it felt good and it's been awhile since I even had that. I told her after that I didn't like selfish and wished she had let me get her off.
First time in a car, but won't be my last:
Since I was such a late bloomer, I had never had the experience of messing around in cars when I was in high school. By the time I started getting laid, I already had my own place. It was fun and felt naughty cause there was a chance we could get discovered. At one time, this truck drove through the parking lot. We were just making out and we looked at the truck. The truck had slowed down but then just kept driving.
I now will see the car as an option. I remember RSD Ozzie talking about car extractions in Transformations, but it was never in my reality until now. Now, I know a good spot where I can take a girl if I can't bring her home.
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Asshole waitress ruins my state
Sidegames decided to come out Monday night. We went to Debonaire Social Club and by RSVPing, we got two free beers, which was disappointing cause we got 3 free ones last week. The bar ended up being busy but there weren't that many sets. On slow nights, having few sets sucks cause you can't really warm up. I did okay with a few sets, but I let this waitress ruin my state for awhile.
I approached this table and I was talking to this girl for about 20 seconds when this waitress came by. I hadn't hooked the set and her presence actually screwed up the vibe so there was this awkward silence. The waitress asked if the people wanted a drink, then asked the girl and I. We all said no. I'll admit I looked at her a little awkwardly cause she came at a bad time. Suddenly she says, "You can't talk to people that are seated at a table!"
I wish I was in state cause that was bullshit. This waitress was seriously trying to tell me that I can't talk to people at a bar. I was still warming up so I wasn't even standing close to the girl. Besides that, I know when I'm being creepy and this wasn't the case. I hadn't hooked but the girl didn't want me to leave yet. The waitress just took it upon herself to tell me to leave the table. I told Sidegames that I was so pissed because I've talked to over 100 women and I can tell when a girl really doesn't want to talk to me. Besides that, girls have no problem telling you to go away if they don't want to talk to you.
I think my actual response was a giggle and then I said, "Are you for real?" I just stood there.
Bitch waitress: Do you want me to have bouncer tell you this?
Me: You gotta be kidding me.
Bitch: Do you want me to get a bouncer?
Me: Whatever.
What I should have said was, get me your manager. There's no way you're not allowed to talk to people at a bar. I've been at much better venues and sarged with no problems. There was only one other time this happened. Seagull and I were at Leg Room and it was completely dead except for one set and the waitress there tried to tell us to leave the girls alone. This fucking bitch waitress just has no clue. Even if I was somehow being creepy, she can let the girl tell me to leave. As I said, girls have no problem doing that. I was standing about 2-3 feet from the girl cause I wasn't in state yet; I wasn't up in her grille.
The reason I went wrong was I let this bother me for most of the night. I even had Sidegames order another beer even though I didn't really want it. I wanted him to pretend to tip her and then I'd tell him not to tip her. The thing is she brought his beer and I walked up to him and she just ran off. LOL.
I also busted myself out of the set because I got in a bad state from her BS. I said to the girl, "What is wrong with you? Why would you ask the waitress to tell me to go away? Was I that creepy?" It was stupid because she hadn't asked the waitress anything. She hadn't even given her the girl eye code. The waitress literally decided to do that on her on just cause I looked at her awkwardly. I blame it on wearing my glasses too though deep down, I don't see how that could have made a difference. I was wearing my glasses on Thursday when I had a long set with Latina girls and that blonde opened me on the dance floor.
Come with us to Ohm:
We took a break and went to Crocodile for the free pizza cause Sidegames was hungry. On a side note, since Sidegames has been living with me, I've fallen off my diet plan. He has too much junk food around and I'm not used to having to resist it. I think I'm getting used to it and hopefully I'll stop. It doesn't make a difference with girls but I want my clothes to fit.
Crocodile was a cock farm but this 2-set walked in. When the cuter one walked by me, I high fived her and she high fived me enthusiastically. When they sat down, this guy that's always there on Mondays painting started talking to them. I went to the bathroom and came back and opened the uglier girl cause the painter was talking to the cute girl. The cute one went to the bathroom. The uglier girl told me they were going to Ohm and that we should go. I asked about the cover cause I didn't feel like paying cover tonight. She told me the cover was $10 so Sidegames and I didn't go. If I had been in the set longer, maybe I would have gone but it didn't seem worth venue changing when nothing was guaranteed. Maybe this was a mistake.
The friend was taking forever in the bathroom so the uglier girl said she wanted to go check on her. Sidegames and I sat back at our table. The girls went and talked to the bouncer guy. The had put one their coats so it was obvious they were about o leave. They surprised me by coming back to the table. The cute one said something like, "It was nice talking to you guys." Usually, you get that when you are being boring, but this was different cause they made an effort to come back and talk to us. As I told Sidegames, when girls don't like you, they just leave. Perhaps this might have been promising.
Bartender shit test:
We were ready to go home but I wanted to see if there were any sets in Flat Iron. There was a 4-set. I approached this tatooed brunette who was cute but not really my type. I opened her and she was really high energy. I actually thought she was messing with me with how high energy she was. I said, "You guys must be night people like me cause you're full of energy" cause they were smiling and she went all hyper enthusiastic. She said, "We are 4am bartenders and we're off today. I said something like, "Cool, we might get along" and I touched her shoulder briefly.
Don't touch me. I don't know you!
I started laughing. Part of me does wonder if I was being creepy today, but this set happened after that 2-set wanted us to go to Ohm. I've been in beast mode so it's not like I'm not calibrated. I think this girl was just shit testing me. Industry night is harder cause bartenders will give more shit tests since they deal with guys hitting on them constantly. I think I handled her fine with laughing. It didn't drop my state. I also said something like, "Wow, she's fiesty. She like my bratty little sister." What dropped my state is Sidegames. He started talking about me. He was DHVing me for a second until he said I've never worked and was spoiled. That made me look stupid and dropped my state. Gotta talk to him again about that. Usually he doesn't say dumb shit.
I asked her if she travels and she shit test me again. "You ask a lot of questions."
I just turned to Sidegames and said, "This is the shit you gotta deal with on a Monday when it's Industry night."
Maybe I'm making excuses but I didn't even really want that girl. She was giving me tons of bullshit that I didn't even want to deal with. I kind of expect it with bartenders and I probably would have kept plowing if I actually was that attracted to her. I think about that Polish girl from Sat and the hot tall Eastern European chicks at Sound Bar Friday. Those girls are way hotter than this girl who was giving me shit. She had a ton of tatoos on her arms which is a turn off for me too. I guess I should have kept plowing for practice but it's annoying now when I get so much shit from a girl I didn't want that badly.
That's another thing I hate about slow nights. Girls give me shit and it's not like I can blow open a set right next to them. That always makes me feel better though I wonder if I should even bee like that. There were no other quality sets in the bar. I ended up talking to some fat girl right after. On a busy night, I'd open up an even hotter set and not even care about the shit tests.
Overall, I guess this was a shitty night and I didn't even learn that much. Still funny how we basically could have went with those girls to Ohm. I guess we should have gone.
I approached this table and I was talking to this girl for about 20 seconds when this waitress came by. I hadn't hooked the set and her presence actually screwed up the vibe so there was this awkward silence. The waitress asked if the people wanted a drink, then asked the girl and I. We all said no. I'll admit I looked at her a little awkwardly cause she came at a bad time. Suddenly she says, "You can't talk to people that are seated at a table!"
I wish I was in state cause that was bullshit. This waitress was seriously trying to tell me that I can't talk to people at a bar. I was still warming up so I wasn't even standing close to the girl. Besides that, I know when I'm being creepy and this wasn't the case. I hadn't hooked but the girl didn't want me to leave yet. The waitress just took it upon herself to tell me to leave the table. I told Sidegames that I was so pissed because I've talked to over 100 women and I can tell when a girl really doesn't want to talk to me. Besides that, girls have no problem telling you to go away if they don't want to talk to you.
I think my actual response was a giggle and then I said, "Are you for real?" I just stood there.
Bitch waitress: Do you want me to have bouncer tell you this?
Me: You gotta be kidding me.
Bitch: Do you want me to get a bouncer?
Me: Whatever.
What I should have said was, get me your manager. There's no way you're not allowed to talk to people at a bar. I've been at much better venues and sarged with no problems. There was only one other time this happened. Seagull and I were at Leg Room and it was completely dead except for one set and the waitress there tried to tell us to leave the girls alone. This fucking bitch waitress just has no clue. Even if I was somehow being creepy, she can let the girl tell me to leave. As I said, girls have no problem doing that. I was standing about 2-3 feet from the girl cause I wasn't in state yet; I wasn't up in her grille.
The reason I went wrong was I let this bother me for most of the night. I even had Sidegames order another beer even though I didn't really want it. I wanted him to pretend to tip her and then I'd tell him not to tip her. The thing is she brought his beer and I walked up to him and she just ran off. LOL.
I also busted myself out of the set because I got in a bad state from her BS. I said to the girl, "What is wrong with you? Why would you ask the waitress to tell me to go away? Was I that creepy?" It was stupid because she hadn't asked the waitress anything. She hadn't even given her the girl eye code. The waitress literally decided to do that on her on just cause I looked at her awkwardly. I blame it on wearing my glasses too though deep down, I don't see how that could have made a difference. I was wearing my glasses on Thursday when I had a long set with Latina girls and that blonde opened me on the dance floor.
Come with us to Ohm:
We took a break and went to Crocodile for the free pizza cause Sidegames was hungry. On a side note, since Sidegames has been living with me, I've fallen off my diet plan. He has too much junk food around and I'm not used to having to resist it. I think I'm getting used to it and hopefully I'll stop. It doesn't make a difference with girls but I want my clothes to fit.
Crocodile was a cock farm but this 2-set walked in. When the cuter one walked by me, I high fived her and she high fived me enthusiastically. When they sat down, this guy that's always there on Mondays painting started talking to them. I went to the bathroom and came back and opened the uglier girl cause the painter was talking to the cute girl. The cute one went to the bathroom. The uglier girl told me they were going to Ohm and that we should go. I asked about the cover cause I didn't feel like paying cover tonight. She told me the cover was $10 so Sidegames and I didn't go. If I had been in the set longer, maybe I would have gone but it didn't seem worth venue changing when nothing was guaranteed. Maybe this was a mistake.
The friend was taking forever in the bathroom so the uglier girl said she wanted to go check on her. Sidegames and I sat back at our table. The girls went and talked to the bouncer guy. The had put one their coats so it was obvious they were about o leave. They surprised me by coming back to the table. The cute one said something like, "It was nice talking to you guys." Usually, you get that when you are being boring, but this was different cause they made an effort to come back and talk to us. As I told Sidegames, when girls don't like you, they just leave. Perhaps this might have been promising.
Bartender shit test:
We were ready to go home but I wanted to see if there were any sets in Flat Iron. There was a 4-set. I approached this tatooed brunette who was cute but not really my type. I opened her and she was really high energy. I actually thought she was messing with me with how high energy she was. I said, "You guys must be night people like me cause you're full of energy" cause they were smiling and she went all hyper enthusiastic. She said, "We are 4am bartenders and we're off today. I said something like, "Cool, we might get along" and I touched her shoulder briefly.
Don't touch me. I don't know you!
I started laughing. Part of me does wonder if I was being creepy today, but this set happened after that 2-set wanted us to go to Ohm. I've been in beast mode so it's not like I'm not calibrated. I think this girl was just shit testing me. Industry night is harder cause bartenders will give more shit tests since they deal with guys hitting on them constantly. I think I handled her fine with laughing. It didn't drop my state. I also said something like, "Wow, she's fiesty. She like my bratty little sister." What dropped my state is Sidegames. He started talking about me. He was DHVing me for a second until he said I've never worked and was spoiled. That made me look stupid and dropped my state. Gotta talk to him again about that. Usually he doesn't say dumb shit.
I asked her if she travels and she shit test me again. "You ask a lot of questions."
I just turned to Sidegames and said, "This is the shit you gotta deal with on a Monday when it's Industry night."
Maybe I'm making excuses but I didn't even really want that girl. She was giving me tons of bullshit that I didn't even want to deal with. I kind of expect it with bartenders and I probably would have kept plowing if I actually was that attracted to her. I think about that Polish girl from Sat and the hot tall Eastern European chicks at Sound Bar Friday. Those girls are way hotter than this girl who was giving me shit. She had a ton of tatoos on her arms which is a turn off for me too. I guess I should have kept plowing for practice but it's annoying now when I get so much shit from a girl I didn't want that badly.
That's another thing I hate about slow nights. Girls give me shit and it's not like I can blow open a set right next to them. That always makes me feel better though I wonder if I should even bee like that. There were no other quality sets in the bar. I ended up talking to some fat girl right after. On a busy night, I'd open up an even hotter set and not even care about the shit tests.
Overall, I guess this was a shitty night and I didn't even learn that much. Still funny how we basically could have went with those girls to Ohm. I guess we should have gone.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Looks don't matter: The Bliss from my AMOG battle
I mentioned in my field report that for the past few hours I've felt angry and frustrated. I also said that I felt moments of bliss. You see, I made a mistake with that set. I couldn't win the friends over. Maybe my chance was when I saw them outside. I felt like I had to gain the Polish girls attention cause she had gotten cold to me so I wanted to do that first. Perhaps I should have worked on talking with the friends more. It's not like I didn't try. I just felt overwhelmed with having to deal with all of this shit, and I felt maintaining my target's attraction and focus on me was priority number one.
Looks don't matter:
Too many guys, and I was one of them, can't get past believing that looks matter. Sure, it doesn't hurt to be tall, buffed, and good looking, but it's not required for success with women. In fact, if you have those attributes, but shitty game, you actually creep girls out. Tyler/Owen says in Blueprint that not being a good looking guy means that you'll end up rounding out your personality more than a good looking guy would as the good looking guy will see results sooner. The good looking guy won't be as driven to round out his personality. I sure seem to be rounding out all aspects of my personality and game cause of how much I've had to struggle.
Tonight is just more proof of how looks don't matter. An outsider comparing me to the two main guys I was in competition with would give me no chance if you went by looks. As I always say, I'm not horrible looking. I'm decent looking but I'm about 30 pounds overweight. These guys were younger, I'd say they were probably in their early 20's, and no older than 25. Both guys were at least 5-6 inches taller than me. They were is pretty good shape and had big pectoral muscles. Did it matter? Nope. I had gotten way stronger attraction when I opened this girl than they ever did unless they managed to bang her later by using the buying temperature I had created. That's if they actually pulled the fat friends and her to their house or one of the girl's. My game in terms of attracting her was superior and my AMOG game was way better.
The first guy had that lame, "I"m her boyfriend" shit like he was gonna scare me off with his size and some hard look. I guess that would have worked in the past, but not now. The cock guy was good with trying to close me out with kino but he didn't have the verbal to get rid of me, plus the way she grabbed my hands when I touched her hand just showed who she liked better.
As I keep saying, I fucked up with her fat friends but you can't win them all. As frustrated as I am in missing out an awesome kiss close and possible lay, I have to be happy with my performance. With wings, I probably would have gotten this set. If Seagull had been with me, he could have occupied the fat friends and talked me up. He could have helped with the AMOG's too but I did fine by myself on that front. Though I want to be hard on myself, how much matrix shit do I expect myself to be able to do?
I got the girl really into me. If I had about five minutes more with her outside before that initial drag-away, I might have been able to seal the deal. If I had gotten the kiss close and make out, all this shit would be a lot easier. By the way, I tried to tell her to tell her friends she was coming with me, but she couldn't leave them. They were her close friends. At one point, she was talking to them about hotels in Vegas. She said she was gonna pay for their hotels in Vegas as she makes good money and apparently, the fatties are broke. If I had gotten the opportunity to make out with her, there was a chance she just tell them, "I like this guy" and they might have stopped cockblocking.
I was dealing with 2-4 guys in this AMOG battle. While one guy was trying to kino my girl away from me, the other guy was able to get one of the fatties to really like him.
Persistence:
I mentioned this in the field report. Compare tonight to what happened in Sangria. I basically just let the AMOG's sarge my Latina girl. I'm thankful for that set. I might eventually still go out on a Day2 with that Latina girl. That experience has pushed me to improve my AMOG game. I learned a lot with PedNurse that one night and I learned a ton tonight. I'll do even better in my next AMOG battle that will inevitably happen with some other hottie in the future. There were many points when I could have given up. I think I pushed as far as I could have. I wouldn't have left if the one fatty didn't start double teaming me with the cock guy telling me to leave.
Those guys probably were wondering what my deal was:
I guess they got to feel satisfaction with me finally leaving in the end. Still, I wonder what they were thinking. I'm guessing they were thinking, "How the fuck can the guy do this? I'm younger, better looking, taller, and buffer than this dude, yet somehow this guy keeps stealing this hot blonde from me."
They might also be wondering how I was so calm throughout the interaction. I used to be afraid of guys. For example, I would have ran off with the initial comment about the dude claiming to be her boyfriend. At the end, I was alone with three girls and 4 dudes. If you think about it, it could be potentially scary. Four guys are gonna beat me if we get in a fight. The thing is, I felt I had nothing to worry about there. They weren't gonna do anything and actually as I was walking to my car, a cop car was driving through the parking lot anyway. More important is the vibe I put out now. In the past, I would have been scared and given off that vibe, which makes people mess you with more. I know as that's why I used to get bullied in high school. I now give the calm vibe cause of the reasons I said in the other post. I figure they won't do anything. Unless they are trained fighters, I'll hurt someone if we get into a fight cause I know how to punch, kick, and block. Worst case scenario, I know I'm not gonna get killed. I have enough street smarts to know what I'm dealing with. It's not like I'm in some club in the hood with gangbangers. Finally, I know how to verbally spar and AMOG dudes. The guy might want to fight me one on one but with the girls there, I can make him look even more stupid if he wants to fight. Ultimately, he wants the girls so he can't just attack me when I'm being fun; it's not like I'm getting in his face.
The theory too is that since I'm so calm, they are less likely to start shit. Being calm could mean I know how to fight, or I'm packing heat or something, or I just have some reason why they shouldn't fuck with me.
The cock guy tooled me in the end:
I guess I should mention this. When I finally said I was leaving I tried to shake the dudes hand. I don't even get pissed about this shit. AMOG battles happen and may the best man win. I happened to lose cause of the fat friends. Maybe I was sort of being a cock too cause I said, "Okay fine. I can't win. The friends like you and not me."
The moron actually said, "I'm not your friend."
I laughed, "She actually likes me more than you but I can't win cause her friends like you more so you win."
I tried to shake his hand but he wouldn't shake my hand. I guess he got that AMOG move right, but it didn't matter at this point. I give the original competitor props as he shook my hand on the dance floor. He is one of the natural dudes that recognize and respect game.
Looks don't matter:
Too many guys, and I was one of them, can't get past believing that looks matter. Sure, it doesn't hurt to be tall, buffed, and good looking, but it's not required for success with women. In fact, if you have those attributes, but shitty game, you actually creep girls out. Tyler/Owen says in Blueprint that not being a good looking guy means that you'll end up rounding out your personality more than a good looking guy would as the good looking guy will see results sooner. The good looking guy won't be as driven to round out his personality. I sure seem to be rounding out all aspects of my personality and game cause of how much I've had to struggle.
Tonight is just more proof of how looks don't matter. An outsider comparing me to the two main guys I was in competition with would give me no chance if you went by looks. As I always say, I'm not horrible looking. I'm decent looking but I'm about 30 pounds overweight. These guys were younger, I'd say they were probably in their early 20's, and no older than 25. Both guys were at least 5-6 inches taller than me. They were is pretty good shape and had big pectoral muscles. Did it matter? Nope. I had gotten way stronger attraction when I opened this girl than they ever did unless they managed to bang her later by using the buying temperature I had created. That's if they actually pulled the fat friends and her to their house or one of the girl's. My game in terms of attracting her was superior and my AMOG game was way better.
The first guy had that lame, "I"m her boyfriend" shit like he was gonna scare me off with his size and some hard look. I guess that would have worked in the past, but not now. The cock guy was good with trying to close me out with kino but he didn't have the verbal to get rid of me, plus the way she grabbed my hands when I touched her hand just showed who she liked better.
As I keep saying, I fucked up with her fat friends but you can't win them all. As frustrated as I am in missing out an awesome kiss close and possible lay, I have to be happy with my performance. With wings, I probably would have gotten this set. If Seagull had been with me, he could have occupied the fat friends and talked me up. He could have helped with the AMOG's too but I did fine by myself on that front. Though I want to be hard on myself, how much matrix shit do I expect myself to be able to do?
I got the girl really into me. If I had about five minutes more with her outside before that initial drag-away, I might have been able to seal the deal. If I had gotten the kiss close and make out, all this shit would be a lot easier. By the way, I tried to tell her to tell her friends she was coming with me, but she couldn't leave them. They were her close friends. At one point, she was talking to them about hotels in Vegas. She said she was gonna pay for their hotels in Vegas as she makes good money and apparently, the fatties are broke. If I had gotten the opportunity to make out with her, there was a chance she just tell them, "I like this guy" and they might have stopped cockblocking.
I was dealing with 2-4 guys in this AMOG battle. While one guy was trying to kino my girl away from me, the other guy was able to get one of the fatties to really like him.
Persistence:
I mentioned this in the field report. Compare tonight to what happened in Sangria. I basically just let the AMOG's sarge my Latina girl. I'm thankful for that set. I might eventually still go out on a Day2 with that Latina girl. That experience has pushed me to improve my AMOG game. I learned a lot with PedNurse that one night and I learned a ton tonight. I'll do even better in my next AMOG battle that will inevitably happen with some other hottie in the future. There were many points when I could have given up. I think I pushed as far as I could have. I wouldn't have left if the one fatty didn't start double teaming me with the cock guy telling me to leave.
Those guys probably were wondering what my deal was:
I guess they got to feel satisfaction with me finally leaving in the end. Still, I wonder what they were thinking. I'm guessing they were thinking, "How the fuck can the guy do this? I'm younger, better looking, taller, and buffer than this dude, yet somehow this guy keeps stealing this hot blonde from me."
They might also be wondering how I was so calm throughout the interaction. I used to be afraid of guys. For example, I would have ran off with the initial comment about the dude claiming to be her boyfriend. At the end, I was alone with three girls and 4 dudes. If you think about it, it could be potentially scary. Four guys are gonna beat me if we get in a fight. The thing is, I felt I had nothing to worry about there. They weren't gonna do anything and actually as I was walking to my car, a cop car was driving through the parking lot anyway. More important is the vibe I put out now. In the past, I would have been scared and given off that vibe, which makes people mess you with more. I know as that's why I used to get bullied in high school. I now give the calm vibe cause of the reasons I said in the other post. I figure they won't do anything. Unless they are trained fighters, I'll hurt someone if we get into a fight cause I know how to punch, kick, and block. Worst case scenario, I know I'm not gonna get killed. I have enough street smarts to know what I'm dealing with. It's not like I'm in some club in the hood with gangbangers. Finally, I know how to verbally spar and AMOG dudes. The guy might want to fight me one on one but with the girls there, I can make him look even more stupid if he wants to fight. Ultimately, he wants the girls so he can't just attack me when I'm being fun; it's not like I'm getting in his face.
The theory too is that since I'm so calm, they are less likely to start shit. Being calm could mean I know how to fight, or I'm packing heat or something, or I just have some reason why they shouldn't fuck with me.
The cock guy tooled me in the end:
I guess I should mention this. When I finally said I was leaving I tried to shake the dudes hand. I don't even get pissed about this shit. AMOG battles happen and may the best man win. I happened to lose cause of the fat friends. Maybe I was sort of being a cock too cause I said, "Okay fine. I can't win. The friends like you and not me."
The moron actually said, "I'm not your friend."
I laughed, "She actually likes me more than you but I can't win cause her friends like you more so you win."
I tried to shake his hand but he wouldn't shake my hand. I guess he got that AMOG move right, but it didn't matter at this point. I give the original competitor props as he shook my hand on the dance floor. He is one of the natural dudes that recognize and respect game.
Hot Polish girl: I defeat the AMOG's but can't beat the fat friends
My emotions for the past hour have been alternating between frustration or anger and moments of bliss when I think about the good lessons from tonight. I was down at this place on the south side called 115 Bourbon Street. I wanted to see the UFC fight and that place charges only $5 admission. I waste more in gas going there, but the great thing is that it's a good place to sarge after the fight. The place is huge: it has a beer garden, two live bands, and a night club area.
I warmed up as usual. It took me awhile to get momentum and I had some rough landings but opening and getting on the dance floor finally got me in the right state. I was walking toward the dance floor when this blonde just caught my eye. I used the direct intent opener and it was just fucking ON right from the start. She's holding my hand enthusiastically. I put the claw on her and she put her arm around me. I decide to isolate her. First, I briefly mentioned the dance floor which turns out might have been a better move. Then, I mention the beer garden. I thought that was better at the time cause you can sit way in back and her friends would really have to look for her to find her.
The venue is huge. I lead head her through the sports bar area and past the bathrooms and past this other bar that's next to the beer garden. I'm about to get outside when her friend swoops in and drags her away. The fat friend probably broke a sweat with how fast she walked away with my girl. At the time, I thought it was bad luck, but now that I think about it, that warpig must have went out to find her as it was two girls mainly around my target the entire night.
Help me, random girl:
I had been working this 4-set several times throughout the night. I couldn't get anywhere with this blonde I wanted. The set knew me cause I had opened them two times. When my Polish girl got dragged away, I turned and saw my 4-set sitting there. I went up to one of the girls and said, "Hey, I need some advice from a girl. We're kind of friends now. This girl was totally into me and we were going outside and her friend just did the drag away. What do I do?"
Obviously, I had an idea of what to do, but I just needed to talk to someone at that moment. I was so frustrated. That set was so on that once I got the girl outside, I would have been kissing her in just a few minutes top. For sure, I wouldn't have hesitated this time. The girl from the 4-set was cool. She said, "Go find her again."
AMOG's, you can't beat me:
I went back to the club area and find my girl there. She's standing against the bar. There's this tall, build dude talking to her. The fat friends are there and there is a dude with his arm around the fat friend that dragged my target away. She immediately smiles and I grab her hand. The dude gives me a hard look and says, "This is my girlfriend, get out of here." What shit game. He thinks he's gonna scare me. At the venues I go to, I don't get scared of dudes. It's not like I'm dealing with gangsters or something. I figure that most guys won't do anything, and if they do, I still remember how to throw a punch. Besides, the guy's not gonna kill me there. There are bouncers everywhere I go and the worst guys I'm dealing with are drunk frat dudes anyway. Plus, knowing the Tyler AMOG tactics, I know how to tool them verbally and make them look stupid if they want to fight me.
I put my arm around this dude as usual. Dude tells me again it's his girlfriend. I suspected he was full of shit cause I knew this girl wanted me. I ask her, "Hey, is this your boyfriend?" She says, "Nope."
Dude looked so stupid. I could see his body language change. I laughed, "I see what you're trying to do." I shook his hand and he shook my hand firmly. He wasn't doing a death grip, but I tooled him, "Hey, easy with the death grip dude. Let me guess, you're gonna wanna do a push up contest next."
"Okay, you win, she's yours," he replied.
I think it's on but the one fat friend in particular just hates me. She drags her away to the dance floor. I got on the dance floor and tried dancing with some girls. I eventually found them. My target wanted to dance, but fatty pulled her away again. I find them back where I opened them. The two dudes are with the girls again. My competitor has his arm around my girl cause she's high buying temperature and of course that transfers. I get her attention and immediately pull her off the dude. I think I said lame shit like Jeffy's "I have a friend that eats lemons like oranges" and "Did you know that two weeks ago, there was a new world's hottest pepper?"
I got her again and she likes me but her fatty friends eventually tell me to leave. I tried talking to them and they just don't like me. I actually shake one of the competing dudes hands. I tell him, "Whatever, that girl likes me more than your friend but you guys win. The friends like you more."
That blonde dude and my competitor were actually cool. I respect how this game works. I actually saw my competitor alone on the dance floor about ten minutes later. I went up to him and said, "WTF are you doing here? Go back there." I shook his hand. The only dude who was a dick was the fourth guy in this AMOG group, but I even got to knock him off his pedestal later on.
Isolation finally, but more distractions:
In some ways, this set just wasn't meant to be. I work other sets and about 40 minutes later, I see the 3 girls outside. One of the fatties is signing up for the Marlboro promotion. I greet them and actually don't get immediately cockblocked. My target and a girl were in some conversation and I just couldn't pull my girls attention. I stood there feeling stupid for about ten seconds.
I saw some random dude sitting and I sit next to him. After some small talk I saw, "Fuck. I don't know what to do. That girl likes me but the friends hate me."
The dude says I should go back. I'm hesitant and he says we'll both go in. He starts talking to the set and gets the other girls attention. I start talking to my girl. I actually hook her again and I'm about to number close her. She literally has my phone when some girl she happened to know sees her and gives her a big hug. I get myself introduced to the friend but my target is all excited to run into her. The wing dude moves the set to a table. My girl follows her friends but just dumps my phone on me.
Now, I'm all of state dealing with all this bullshit. My wing dude starts taking over the set actually. The dude was cool though. He had signed up for the Marlboro thing even though he doesn't smoke. Girls said to use his $1 for a pack coupon, he had to go to the bar himself. He asks one of the fat friends to go with him. I was seated across this giant table. I was out of state and I tried getting my girls attention but she ignored me. I had tried sitting by her but she had turned cold at this moment. I walked away in disgust and tried to open other sets.
About five minutes later, I see my wing guy joking around with a fatty and my target. I figure I lost them to him, but I see the three girls later on alone in the club area.
Girls on the dance floor:
Near the end of the night, I see the three girls on the dance floor. I was already on the dance floor and had been moving around when I saw them. I grabbed my girls hand and started dancing with her. The fatty said, "You again?" My girl actually moved away from me so I figured she probably had lost interest. The fat friends drag her onstage. Fucked again.
Dudes are back:
I should mention that the multiple times that I lost these girls, I walked around trying to work other sets. This venue had too many married women. I got some large, tall girl to be sort of into me earlier, but that was about it. None of the other sets went anywhere. Well, I was about to number close this set cause she loved my favorite restaurant in Evergreen Park, but I had forgotten her name and my "How do you spell your name?" didn't fly and she ran off pissed off.
As I was on the dance floor, I saw the dudes from earlier were back in the set. I figured I had lost at this point. I went to take a piss as the place was closing soon and it's a long drive to my place. The set and the dudes happened to be walking out as I was leaving.
I slowed down so my Polish girl would pass me. I got her attention, "Hey (little mouse in Polish) which is a term of endearment." She said, "You're still here."
This is when a 4th dude who turned out to be a cock came in between us and put his arm around she and I. I tried the little brother line. He said some stupid reply like, "I'm not your little brother, I'm taller than you." I kept walking with him. The fat girls were ahead and stopped. The guy put his arm around my girl. I told him, "Easy with your arms. You're squishing her." He said, "I'm just trying to keep her warm."
I'm damn persistent:
I can't believe how confident and persistent I am now. I guess I really learned a good lesson from losing that Latina girl at Sangria. (Strangely, I'm still texting her. LOL.) Shortly after he said that "keep her warm" comment, he let go cause she was uncomfortable and she walked ahead of the pack. One fatty was walking with one of the dudes who had his arm around her. I just kept walking with the group as my car actually was the same way as their car. The dude tried to give me shit, "Why are you walking with us?" I said, "My car is this way." Girl said, "Yeah, it just happens (sarcastic tone) to be this way."
In my mind I'm wondering what I'm gonna do. I figure I might as well burn the set to the ground. I'll feel better than if I give up. We get to the girl's car. A fatty go in the drivers seat. My blonde was leaning on the trunk with her hot ass sticking out. A fat friend was talking to the asshole guy.
The key is her hands:
I've learned from dealing with dance floor AMOG's and from tonight that hand holding is huge. I can remember grabbing her hand several times when I needed to pull her away from the AMOG's. Since she liked me, this kept working. My girl was talking to one of the dudes because he had a Blackhawks hat on. She was asking him if he was a real fan and told some story about how her brother has been a fan since he was a kid, but unfortunately he was stuck in Colorado last year when the Hawks won the Stanley Cup.
As soon as she finished the story, I grabbed her hand. As I did this, the cock dude stuck his arm in between us and put his arm on her said. I said, "Hey, we're gonna grab cheese blitzes and potato pancakes." We had been talking about Polish food earlier and I figured this would work. She got all excited. It was like we had an inside joke as the dude didn't know what I was talking about. I remember him trying to interrupt by saying, "What's that?" He then dropped his arm as he realized I had her full attention.
Dude understood peer group:
The guy's AMOG game is shit compared to mine, but he had advantages that I didn't. He had wings who could talk to the friends and who could distract me. Despite all their BS throughout the night, the hot girl liked me best. Again, I could not get these fatties to like me. The mistake was I needed to use old Mystery method style with this set. I should have opened the fatties first and ignored my girl. I had gotten introduced to the fat friends early on and usually that's enough. Maybe these fatties just didn't like Filipino guys. What I think is certain is that the one fat friend liked the dude that was showing her attention, so that's why she accepted his friends.
I couldn't really do much to win the friends over. This is why you need wings. I couldn't talk to the friends cause when the AMOG's were around, my target was so high buying temperature that she'd let them kino her. As I'm writing this, I guess I could have let that happen and just talked to the fat friends. I would have just had to trust that I could steal her back, and I'd also have to look for if she was getting close to kiss closing the dude.
I felt good I had gotten rid of the cock guy again briefly. He taps my shoulder and says, "You have to go." I start laughing. The thing is the fatty says it too.
I gotta give up sometime:
It's obvious I lost when I can get the fat friends to like me. It's funny, when I went back to my girl and said I was leaving, she hugged me and moved towards me. I guess I could have tried for a number close again, but I just gave up. The number wasn't gonna be good there as the friends would shit talk me afterward anyway.
I warmed up as usual. It took me awhile to get momentum and I had some rough landings but opening and getting on the dance floor finally got me in the right state. I was walking toward the dance floor when this blonde just caught my eye. I used the direct intent opener and it was just fucking ON right from the start. She's holding my hand enthusiastically. I put the claw on her and she put her arm around me. I decide to isolate her. First, I briefly mentioned the dance floor which turns out might have been a better move. Then, I mention the beer garden. I thought that was better at the time cause you can sit way in back and her friends would really have to look for her to find her.
The venue is huge. I lead head her through the sports bar area and past the bathrooms and past this other bar that's next to the beer garden. I'm about to get outside when her friend swoops in and drags her away. The fat friend probably broke a sweat with how fast she walked away with my girl. At the time, I thought it was bad luck, but now that I think about it, that warpig must have went out to find her as it was two girls mainly around my target the entire night.
Help me, random girl:
I had been working this 4-set several times throughout the night. I couldn't get anywhere with this blonde I wanted. The set knew me cause I had opened them two times. When my Polish girl got dragged away, I turned and saw my 4-set sitting there. I went up to one of the girls and said, "Hey, I need some advice from a girl. We're kind of friends now. This girl was totally into me and we were going outside and her friend just did the drag away. What do I do?"
Obviously, I had an idea of what to do, but I just needed to talk to someone at that moment. I was so frustrated. That set was so on that once I got the girl outside, I would have been kissing her in just a few minutes top. For sure, I wouldn't have hesitated this time. The girl from the 4-set was cool. She said, "Go find her again."
AMOG's, you can't beat me:
I went back to the club area and find my girl there. She's standing against the bar. There's this tall, build dude talking to her. The fat friends are there and there is a dude with his arm around the fat friend that dragged my target away. She immediately smiles and I grab her hand. The dude gives me a hard look and says, "This is my girlfriend, get out of here." What shit game. He thinks he's gonna scare me. At the venues I go to, I don't get scared of dudes. It's not like I'm dealing with gangsters or something. I figure that most guys won't do anything, and if they do, I still remember how to throw a punch. Besides, the guy's not gonna kill me there. There are bouncers everywhere I go and the worst guys I'm dealing with are drunk frat dudes anyway. Plus, knowing the Tyler AMOG tactics, I know how to tool them verbally and make them look stupid if they want to fight me.
I put my arm around this dude as usual. Dude tells me again it's his girlfriend. I suspected he was full of shit cause I knew this girl wanted me. I ask her, "Hey, is this your boyfriend?" She says, "Nope."
Dude looked so stupid. I could see his body language change. I laughed, "I see what you're trying to do." I shook his hand and he shook my hand firmly. He wasn't doing a death grip, but I tooled him, "Hey, easy with the death grip dude. Let me guess, you're gonna wanna do a push up contest next."
"Okay, you win, she's yours," he replied.
I think it's on but the one fat friend in particular just hates me. She drags her away to the dance floor. I got on the dance floor and tried dancing with some girls. I eventually found them. My target wanted to dance, but fatty pulled her away again. I find them back where I opened them. The two dudes are with the girls again. My competitor has his arm around my girl cause she's high buying temperature and of course that transfers. I get her attention and immediately pull her off the dude. I think I said lame shit like Jeffy's "I have a friend that eats lemons like oranges" and "Did you know that two weeks ago, there was a new world's hottest pepper?"
I got her again and she likes me but her fatty friends eventually tell me to leave. I tried talking to them and they just don't like me. I actually shake one of the competing dudes hands. I tell him, "Whatever, that girl likes me more than your friend but you guys win. The friends like you more."
That blonde dude and my competitor were actually cool. I respect how this game works. I actually saw my competitor alone on the dance floor about ten minutes later. I went up to him and said, "WTF are you doing here? Go back there." I shook his hand. The only dude who was a dick was the fourth guy in this AMOG group, but I even got to knock him off his pedestal later on.
Isolation finally, but more distractions:
In some ways, this set just wasn't meant to be. I work other sets and about 40 minutes later, I see the 3 girls outside. One of the fatties is signing up for the Marlboro promotion. I greet them and actually don't get immediately cockblocked. My target and a girl were in some conversation and I just couldn't pull my girls attention. I stood there feeling stupid for about ten seconds.
I saw some random dude sitting and I sit next to him. After some small talk I saw, "Fuck. I don't know what to do. That girl likes me but the friends hate me."
The dude says I should go back. I'm hesitant and he says we'll both go in. He starts talking to the set and gets the other girls attention. I start talking to my girl. I actually hook her again and I'm about to number close her. She literally has my phone when some girl she happened to know sees her and gives her a big hug. I get myself introduced to the friend but my target is all excited to run into her. The wing dude moves the set to a table. My girl follows her friends but just dumps my phone on me.
Now, I'm all of state dealing with all this bullshit. My wing dude starts taking over the set actually. The dude was cool though. He had signed up for the Marlboro thing even though he doesn't smoke. Girls said to use his $1 for a pack coupon, he had to go to the bar himself. He asks one of the fat friends to go with him. I was seated across this giant table. I was out of state and I tried getting my girls attention but she ignored me. I had tried sitting by her but she had turned cold at this moment. I walked away in disgust and tried to open other sets.
About five minutes later, I see my wing guy joking around with a fatty and my target. I figure I lost them to him, but I see the three girls later on alone in the club area.
Girls on the dance floor:
Near the end of the night, I see the three girls on the dance floor. I was already on the dance floor and had been moving around when I saw them. I grabbed my girls hand and started dancing with her. The fatty said, "You again?" My girl actually moved away from me so I figured she probably had lost interest. The fat friends drag her onstage. Fucked again.
Dudes are back:
I should mention that the multiple times that I lost these girls, I walked around trying to work other sets. This venue had too many married women. I got some large, tall girl to be sort of into me earlier, but that was about it. None of the other sets went anywhere. Well, I was about to number close this set cause she loved my favorite restaurant in Evergreen Park, but I had forgotten her name and my "How do you spell your name?" didn't fly and she ran off pissed off.
As I was on the dance floor, I saw the dudes from earlier were back in the set. I figured I had lost at this point. I went to take a piss as the place was closing soon and it's a long drive to my place. The set and the dudes happened to be walking out as I was leaving.
I slowed down so my Polish girl would pass me. I got her attention, "Hey (little mouse in Polish) which is a term of endearment." She said, "You're still here."
This is when a 4th dude who turned out to be a cock came in between us and put his arm around she and I. I tried the little brother line. He said some stupid reply like, "I'm not your little brother, I'm taller than you." I kept walking with him. The fat girls were ahead and stopped. The guy put his arm around my girl. I told him, "Easy with your arms. You're squishing her." He said, "I'm just trying to keep her warm."
I'm damn persistent:
I can't believe how confident and persistent I am now. I guess I really learned a good lesson from losing that Latina girl at Sangria. (Strangely, I'm still texting her. LOL.) Shortly after he said that "keep her warm" comment, he let go cause she was uncomfortable and she walked ahead of the pack. One fatty was walking with one of the dudes who had his arm around her. I just kept walking with the group as my car actually was the same way as their car. The dude tried to give me shit, "Why are you walking with us?" I said, "My car is this way." Girl said, "Yeah, it just happens (sarcastic tone) to be this way."
In my mind I'm wondering what I'm gonna do. I figure I might as well burn the set to the ground. I'll feel better than if I give up. We get to the girl's car. A fatty go in the drivers seat. My blonde was leaning on the trunk with her hot ass sticking out. A fat friend was talking to the asshole guy.
The key is her hands:
I've learned from dealing with dance floor AMOG's and from tonight that hand holding is huge. I can remember grabbing her hand several times when I needed to pull her away from the AMOG's. Since she liked me, this kept working. My girl was talking to one of the dudes because he had a Blackhawks hat on. She was asking him if he was a real fan and told some story about how her brother has been a fan since he was a kid, but unfortunately he was stuck in Colorado last year when the Hawks won the Stanley Cup.
As soon as she finished the story, I grabbed her hand. As I did this, the cock dude stuck his arm in between us and put his arm on her said. I said, "Hey, we're gonna grab cheese blitzes and potato pancakes." We had been talking about Polish food earlier and I figured this would work. She got all excited. It was like we had an inside joke as the dude didn't know what I was talking about. I remember him trying to interrupt by saying, "What's that?" He then dropped his arm as he realized I had her full attention.
Dude understood peer group:
The guy's AMOG game is shit compared to mine, but he had advantages that I didn't. He had wings who could talk to the friends and who could distract me. Despite all their BS throughout the night, the hot girl liked me best. Again, I could not get these fatties to like me. The mistake was I needed to use old Mystery method style with this set. I should have opened the fatties first and ignored my girl. I had gotten introduced to the fat friends early on and usually that's enough. Maybe these fatties just didn't like Filipino guys. What I think is certain is that the one fat friend liked the dude that was showing her attention, so that's why she accepted his friends.
I couldn't really do much to win the friends over. This is why you need wings. I couldn't talk to the friends cause when the AMOG's were around, my target was so high buying temperature that she'd let them kino her. As I'm writing this, I guess I could have let that happen and just talked to the fat friends. I would have just had to trust that I could steal her back, and I'd also have to look for if she was getting close to kiss closing the dude.
I felt good I had gotten rid of the cock guy again briefly. He taps my shoulder and says, "You have to go." I start laughing. The thing is the fatty says it too.
I gotta give up sometime:
It's obvious I lost when I can get the fat friends to like me. It's funny, when I went back to my girl and said I was leaving, she hugged me and moved towards me. I guess I could have tried for a number close again, but I just gave up. The number wasn't gonna be good there as the friends would shit talk me afterward anyway.
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